"Do not wash dirty linen in public" - says the proverb. And indeed, there are things about couples only and should not be telling no close relatives or friends. Why sometimes it is important to bite your tongue and what you can not talk to anyone?
It so happens that the temptation to share with someone the details of his personal life is very great, but think about whether you'll regret it after a while. Some details of his family life can be tell a psychologistIt was he, not a close friend will give you good advice. What secrets should never leave the confines of your home?
Family quarrel. Brawl - it is an integral part of human relationships and marriage is no exception. Often quarrels and scandals occur scratch, just because someone is angry or tired. Such an argument also decay rapidly as inflamed, so once again this recall and reopen the wounds in the hearts of telling her friend, "Oh, what a scoundrel he is" not worth it. Firstly, you will again get angry at her husband, and secondly, on your personal life to learn more strangers and no one knows how many of them will. In addition, you will be very embarrassed in front of her husband, if a friend is somehow accidentally remember about your quarrel.
Intimate photos.It would seem that this fact is obvious, but still some couples have a desire to share their intimate photos with strangers. For example, other erotic show selfie his wife. There are certain limits, to break that - a taboo, and this point is one of them. Life is an unpredictable thing, it is not known under what circumstances and where it can get these photos, so let it be just between you.
Material problems.That "with sweet heaven in a cottage" is a very big question, therefore, of the financial problems of broken more than one even at first glance, a strong marriage. If you still happen that your family is experiencing financial difficulties, it is not necessary to run at once to complain about mom or girlfriend about how everything is bad. Essentially they will not much help, but your relationship with your spouse can shake. This problem should be resolved exclusively in the family, it is better to choose the time and discuss with her husband plan of action at the moment: how and what to save, where to find additional income and so on. This will strengthen your relationship and will enable faster to get out of financial crisis, as your man will feel your support.
Do not retell your conversations. It is not necessary to tell your mom that your husband somehow impartially spoke about someone from your close relatives. And to repeat what you are someone discussing the husband spoke not as you would like. Remember, your family - it's your husband, and parents - it's close relatives, so neither they nor your friends do not need to know what questions you are discussing together with her husband, and especially their retell. Your relatives do not need to be aware of all the details of your life, about something you need to be able to remain silent.
Details of your sex life.If you want to show off your sex life - share it with your partner, tell him how you feel good and nice. BUT if this problemThen this conversation is not exactly foreign to the ears. If you do not like something in a sex - that's no reason to complain about a friend, it is a reason, firstly, to talk with a partner from the heart, and, secondly, if the problem persists, consult a specialist. If your complaint, somehow reach your spouse, it can lead to very unpleasant consequences, so be careful as to whom you are talking about your sex life.
Also be sure to ask about any sexual complexes interfere with your happiness, and how to fight them
