Negativity in a relationship really is poisoning them. Constant dissatisfaction and accusations slowly killing the connection with the second half. How to protect the relationship from the negative?
Destructive type of behavior is not visible to man. But from the outside it looks incredibly toxic. Take advantage of these 8 ways to protect your relationship, and you will see that they will become more harmonious.
Do not try to change a person
You know the famous saying: "leopard change his spots." This is the case. Change you can only himself. But trying to make adjustments to the character and behavior of the other person, you'll attract some scandals. From this comes up ...
Do not poke flaws in partner
All people are different. You may disagree with the behavior, character and actions of the partner, but pointing out his flaws - you will not achieve anything. Will attract only negative in their attitude and constant abuse.
Learn to forgive
Can be long to be offended, be stubborn, but someone from this better after falling out? Learn to forgive partner. Especially because people often inadvertently hurt others do.
Do not compare
You can compare how much you like your relationship with other people, but it is meaningless. Because all the people put their partner only in the best light and are silent about the scandals, abuse and other disadvantages of family life.
less complain
There is a category of people who just give mouth open and complaints will flow fountain. Whatever happens around as if today was not great, they only see the negative. The same attitude they splash out on a partner. Of course, in difficult times, he must substitute your shoulder. And when these "difficult" for 10 minutes once a day?
Respect each other
Built on respect for the trust, love and happiness. You can forgive a lot, but when people do not respect each other, it brings a lot of negativity in their relationship.
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