As bad as the public and the authorities or treat office romances - they have been, are and will always be. This is quite natural - after all, we spend at work most of his life, and his colleagues are more common than with friends, neighbors or its second half. Why do we fall in love with their colleagues and what are the pros and cons of a love relationship at work?
British psychologists have conducted a study on the subject and made a number of interesting conclusions.Psychologists claim to be someone's best friend, you need to spend with him 200 hours. It is not surprising that our best friends are just colleagues.
The same can be said of the love relationship. Poll 6000 employees in the UK has shown that two thirds of people would be willing to meet with a colleague, and only a third said that they never would not do - because they believe it is impossible to combine romance and work. I.e one-third of those surveyed theoretically ready to start a relationship at work.At the same time 76% of respondents said they would keep such a relationship in secret, which suggests that in society there is prejudice against office romances.
As polls show22% of people meet their romantic partner is at work. By comparison over the Internet tie affair 13% of people. After all, working side by side, we have the opportunity to take a closer look and found a man much better than flipping through a dating site. We can see how a person interacts with others, react to the problem, it acts as pressure on him.
The main reasons not to have romance in the workplace have become the risk of losing their jobs, the psychological discomfort During the working day, the drama in the relationship, which can affect and damage the professional career reputation. Also, 60% of those who had an affair at work admitted that they felt the psychological pressure and were harder to perform their duties. 51% admitted that they worry about gossip. One in three said that he felt the condemnation of colleagues, one in six was fun, and one in ten even discriminated against because of the novel in the office.
Also, the survey showed that a woman who meets with the head rather get a promotion in their career than the other way around: when the boss meets with subordinates.
So why is there an office romance? at the work place relationships fairly straightforward, but because people are always in close proximity to each other, it is not surprising that,, they value each other as potential sexual partner. And it may well lead to romantic intimacy.
Also be sure to ask about that it is necessary to know the couple to avoid infidelity
