All dream of a time to get married or get married and live with this person all my life. But units this can be done. How to maintain a happy marriage for a lifetime? Read tips from the couple who lived 45 years together.
These tips will give parents the son before his wedding. At that time, they celebrated 27 years of the marriage. Now they live side by side for 45 years. What they said to his son before he led the future wife to the altar?
Do not look for approval and unconditional love from a partner.If you constantly want to receive approval and love from your other half, you're not your own. Before you get married you need nurture self-esteemWhich you can bring to the relationship. Love and encouragement you need to learn how to give first of all to yourself, otherwise you will not be able to give these feelings partner and will demand the impossible from him.
Accept each other as you are.This is the foundation on which stand your relationship. Different views in the family - this is normal. Trying to change the partner, and adjust it by yourself, you are wasting your time and destroy the family. Choosing a person as a partner, you will obviously choose disagreements, which will have to live many years. The adoption will help smooth out the rough edges of conflicts.
Openly talk about their thoughts.Your significant other does not have the skills of a telepath. If you want him to understand something, be prepared to say so. But also do not think out of the partner what he did not tell you. You do not know how to read his thoughts?
Listen carefully. When your significant other something tells you, do not try to end the conversation or advice quickly. Try to understand what your partner says. Do not discount and do not condemn it. Try to imagine yourself in the place of the second half and be ready to support in difficult times.
Solve the problem.Do not go to sleep in a quarrel. Many couples of problems running, if it will resolve itself, but it does not happen. Both partners must be willing to discuss differences no offense and moralistic. Sometimes you have to put relationships above your beliefs. Yes, it happens. And do not go to bed at odds, not to start the day with resentment.
Grow together with a partner. Change is inevitable. marriages fail often from the fact that one of the spouses does not want to see a change partner. You will not like 10 years ago. In a good relationship the partners go forward in parallel without interfering with each other, they give the opportunity to learn, grow and develop.
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