It is no secret that in some families there is such a thing as male aggression. It can manifest itself in different ways: from shouting to battering. It does not always solve the problem in the usual conversation.
as a woman cope with aggression the male? Consider a few ways to combat the problem.
1. You can not put off the terrible fact of aggression on the part of men. If you look for a permanent justification, the problem does not disappear, and the relationship will move into a stage of "tyrant-sacrifice."
2. If it makes sense to keep the relationship, it is necessary to analyze the situation. When the cruel treatment appeared spontaneously, it is necessary to find out the reason. Can a man something happens outside the relationship, and it weighs heavily on him. If aggression is manifested from the very beginning of the relationship, then why not turn to a psychologist, or to try to break this relationship.
3. It is possible that the woman herself can cause violent behavior, even without knowing it. For example, my wife is constantly questioned in her husband, and, as a defensive reaction, a man begins to use physical and moral humiliation. Therefore, it is necessary to reconsider the attitude to her beloved and carefully analyze everything.
What can be done
1. If there is a chance of saving the relationship, first of all, you need to start working on their self-esteem. You can also try to awaken memories, recall the happy moments and awaken long forgotten feelings.
2. Even psychologists advise to talk about their pain and even a calm voice, and so can not go on.
3. If all else fails, it is better to see a specialist and get to the breakdown of relationships.
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