Psychologist Alex Skurihin opened three questions that need to ask each other the couple that keep the Union on many issues.
that relationship remained strong, they somehow should be spoken out loud. Resentments piling up like the wife and the husband. If you do not raise complex issues, the silence will soon become the main communication tactics.
Psychologist invites you to sit and talk with the second half:1. What am I doing right? What makes you happy (th) next to me?
The question that will not only give you the ability to understand where to go next, but will force your partner to remember the positive qualities.
2. That my behavior upsets you?
Prepare for the fact that the answer may upset you or even shock. But we should not dramatize, people tend to exaggerate.
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But once you've asked this question, then you are ready to change. If we are talking about something of which you can not give up, start the search for compromise.
Important! Surely, you want to respond to the partner, it is also far from imperfect... No one likes to talk long about their shortcomings. But I have to be patient, you are Lata crack in the union, rather than split it completely. At first it will be difficult, but then everything changed!
3. How do I do when you feel bad, how to maintain?
It is important that the couple understand how costs behave in difficult times, so as not to irritate the other, and to become his mainstay.Someone wants to stay in silence, someone needs understanding, someone is trying to talk. You can not read minds, so it is necessary to say and determine the tactics of behavior with a partner.
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