The family ship is often caught in storms. This happens in different periods, for which you can prepare and successfully pass the test. 5 dangerous periods of marriage: how to get through?
Family life is not an easy test. And, it turns out, it also has its own time intervals. Dangerous periods of marriage, according to experts, occur at 8 months, 2.5 years, 4,7,12 years. It is at these moments that the family's ship can sink in a stormy ocean of passions and misunderstandings. But family psychologists and coaches are confident that if you prepare, you can cope with it!
8 months: addictive
When the flair, romance, passion of the first months of marriage subsides, partners begin to make amazing discoveries. It turns out that your spouse is not that incredible. We begin to pay attention to shortcomings that we didn’t notice before. Moreover, this discovery falls like snow on its head. According to psychologists, at this time it is better to immediately confess to a partner about your bad habits, true goals and hobbies.
2.5 years: comfort
After 2.5-3 years of marriage - no matter civil or official - the family is overwhelmed by a new wave of indignation. Romance is almost entirely out of the relationship. The desire to go on dates, to dress beautifully disappears, and you don't want sex so much. To survive this moment, it is necessary for both partners, as they say, to turn on. Make compliments each other, talk, and quarrel go to a cafe: there you will not be able to accuse each other and shout. Try not to “kill” your wife or husband with the most caustic words.
The desire to go on dates, to dress beautifully disappears, and I do not want sex so much / istockphoto.com
4 years: apathy
Family life turns into a boring, insipid routine. Partners know everything about each other, there is nothing new and unexpected. Moreover, the desire to develop relationships does not arise at all. It seems, well, where else? At this time, it is advisable not to let everything take its course. If you two cannot cope, get a psychologist.
If you can't cope with the two of you, connect a psychologist / istockphoto.com
7 years: routine
By this period, both have accumulated tremendous fatigue from everyday issues, children, problems. There is no joy, and no inner happiness. Here you need to seriously talk with your spouse and outline a plan for overcoming the crisis. Might be worth planning travel together?
12 years: crisis within crisis
At this time, each of the spouses is experiencing their own sadness in middle age, re-evaluating their achievements and successes. Many people remember their real dreams, and here it is important not to stop the spouse. Give each other an opportunity to catch up. Even if a new hobby or hobby seems absolutely meaningless. During this period, it is more important than ever to support each other. This, for example, will help eft therapy.
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