Sometimes we get lost when it comes to feelings.
The first meeting
To start, determine for themselves what attracted you in a partner. The manner of communication, shape, height, color of eyes manners - select for yourself at least three points. It all rational reasoning mind. However, there is still a desire, and the other side, which was built on the pheromones of the human body. For example, the smell is one of the most powerful agents of attention. If a man and woman for each other, under the action of pheromones excited feelings, emotions. At first it's just sympathy, interest, desire to be closer to each other. Then he wants more and more. And now, a man of desire loses his head, and the woman just melt in his arms. Nature gives a signal - if there is attraction between you, the whole you are approaching each other. This condition can last as much as nature preserves attracted by the smell. Alas, it is a short period. On average - up to three years. Then you "sniff," and the smell of the old no longer excites such a strong attraction and crazy feelings. What it turns out - and love is not it?
Attraction - only the initial basis for the pair relations.
What's next?
When the attraction based on the smell begins to fade - out our differences to the fore. It becomes clear that the partner of some other and did not like you. Usually, at this moment, and there are the first questions: how to recognize love in your partner? Does he love me really as I did, or just want sex? Or get some more benefits for themselves in this relationship?The reason no doubt is one of the partner's feelings: we are trying to evaluate what he's going through, but judge for yourself. For those sensations that are experiencing themselves. Here, there may be a terrible mistake.
The fact that we feel for your partner what is happening in our souls at the time of attraction depends on the inherent properties and the human condition. After all, we are different and the device sensual sphere.
How to define love?
Love - is a deeper sense. This is not just an emotional swing, is the desire to give a sense of a loved one, rather than waiting for them from it, to do something, to please him, to germinate in himself his desires, feelings, states, to be with him on the same wavelength, a single whole. Love - means to admit a person into your heart, to share with him intimate and penetrating that you hear in response.
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