Most of today's parents understand adolescent problem and try to minimize its symptoms. Do not believe it, but they do! Somehow they smooth out differences with the child-teen to a minimum.
You will also want to be among the "advanced"? Then this article is for you! Today we will talk about how to find a common language with a teenager, how to relieve his constant laziness, avoiding smoking and how to dissuade the child from tattoos.
So, how to solve the most common problems with the child-teen? If their child the words "do not want", "I will not," you hear more often than any other, if he does only what he sees fit, then you should learn how to communicate with him.
That the child complied with your request, create a situation where he can not do otherwise. For example, you want it to be warmed up and eaten a meal, but the teenager refused. Do not start a fight! No need to run, pour a full plate and put it in front of the computer, as long as my child ate. Just wait. Will take a couple of minutes or a few hours - does not matter. But the child will feel hungry, think about your words and will eat itself, and in the house there will be peace and quiet.
If your teenager asks you to do something, not because he can not, but because they do not want - do not give in to provocations. Show that you are very tired or you do a lot of things. This technique will work more efficiently than the notation!
Worried that your child will take an example from older friends and start to smoke? Be vigilant. It is very important not to miss out on educational moment and save a child from a bad habit.
Your child wants a tattoo? To solve this problem is very simple. Importantly, do not begin to dissuade him. Offer to view thumbnails. Tell him fascinating history, as it once and do stuff like tattoos, but then there was terrible!
For example, once you have seen on the beach a beautiful woman who has a mysterious spot was impaled on his side. It turns out that she got a tattoo as a teenager, and when it grew, the figure stretched out. Let's say it's not you scared to death. But then happened something worse! You've seen how badly looked tattoo done at an early age, around the neck of an old woman! And you perehotelos.
Encourage your child to see the photos, which depict people with tattoos unsuccessful. Tell him how you are glad that they have done in his youth such an error. Focus on what is best to do a tattoo has since ceased to grow. Faced with your understanding, not condemnation, the child probably will agree to wait. Over time, he will outgrow this desire.
Whatever happens, stop the brawl with the child. Yes, you parents. You are older and wiser. Yes, adolescence - it is difficult. But remember ourselves in these years! Do you think you get to be a good boy? You are wrong! Avoid conflicts with adolescents could not be any family. Believe me, a touch effort and patience on your part not only eliminates the bickering, and keep the nerve cells, but also help you to become a close friend for your child.
