Mother of three children and a popular blogger Mel Watts published a very honest post about the guilt that haunts many of today's moms. She described the eight "pain points," vulnerabilities, which are formed in the mind of virtually every mother, and shared the experience of winning the negative feelings that interfere with being happy.
I would like to know not breast-feed - this is normal. That someone is feeding well, and someone else. What are the options.
That refusing to breastfeed, you do not automatically translate into a bad mother. After playing in the playground, the children do not ask a new baby, as it is fed to decide whether they will be friends with him or not.
I would like to know What if I rocked her baby in her arms, then there is nothing terrible. I did not have to shake him when he is five or six years, and so on. And in general, can be plenty to carry a baby on the handles, lisp and caress it, without fear that he will grow up spoiled.
I would like to know to sleep at all - it is normal for children. They generally sleep. Even more sleep! Especially in the morning when you need to get up in the garden or school, and hurry.
I would like to knowthat send their children to daycare or kindergarten, does not mean to break his mind for a lifetime. Sometimes you need to work or relax. Or something else. The children there are well adapted and even thrive.
I would like to knowyou need not wait that they are older and wiser. You need to enjoy them now, as they have.
I would like to know that they will survive, sometimes eating fast food.
I would like to know that they will forgive me for all those numerous occasions when I frustrated and yelled at them. Children need to feel that they are guided and directed. And if it means you have to shout, well. Sometimes it works.
I would like to know I'm not alone, that many women feel the same as me. Our lives are full of shit, vomit, patches and bugs. We look at other moms, and we think that they have everything else, they are coping, but we just do not know what is really going on.
All sometimes need a little help. It can be a shoulder to lean on, or vest where you can cry, or an ear to listen, or just a walk in the park. Life is too short to worry about how you feed your baby, how you gave birth to him and see if you rocking him to sleep. Just like him, enjoy him and live for each other. "
Mel post caused a huge response from the mothers, typing in Facebook over 5500 "likes" and 400 comments, thanks. Women write that they "suffer", they have ceased to gnaw themselves for failing "Maternity standards" and began to look at their responsibilities as pleasant care.
