In our modern world, most parents are so much concerned about their children that do not allow them to fall and fill the cones. Your priority should be happy, not obedient children!
Error №1: Underestimating nature
Each child has its own character, do not try to retrain, because each needs its own approach. The main thing you need to take care of - it's character. Do not hide the child from this world, give him freedom.
Error №2: Do not judge by the children's parents
Often encountering ill-mannered child, we automatically begin to think that he crappy parents. But it was not always so! There is no perfect parents, as there are no ideal children! We never know what mother and father behind this child, so do not judge them so.
Error №3: The actions always speak louder than words
All parents want to be ideal for their children. But the child grew up smart and kind, we have to be him such an example. But often we forget that our instructions work only if we ourselves follow them.
Therefore, when you scold your child for what it misbehaves, ask yourself: maybe a child, you copy?
Top 10 mistakes of today's parents / istockphoto.com
Error №4: You want to have a "right" and not the "real" child
Never try to change something in your child that you do not like. Do not force him to become who he alleged to be in your dreams. Let it will be what he wants to be.
Error №5: You deprive childhood child
Do not load your child's homework, lessons at a music school and sports. Do not force him to do housework. Allow your child to stay a child, because he has his own personal right to a happy childhood.
Error №6: Competitive training
What mother would not want her child to be better than the rest? Better I studied and showed the best results? Of course, all want it. Many people are addicted to it so much that their child begins to treat all life as one infinite competition. But we forget that life - it's not just the sweat and struggle, but also the joy of the moment.
Top 10 mistakes of today's parents / istockphoto.com
Error №7: You think of the child
We want to ensure our children a better life, but only a child does not know how to think for themselves. Do not decide for your child what he needs to be - is not an act of love on your part that you want.
Error №8: Your whole life - children
And in love there should be a measure of the children. You, the parents, should have their own life and their own successes. Be a good example for your children. If you want your child to live a full life, living it yourself.
Error №9: Do you think that your children are perfect
Many of today's parents are not ready to take the negative reviews with respect to their offspring. If the teacher tells you that your child is misbehaving, the findings need to be done in relation to the child, not the teachers.
Error №10: You deify their children
Most parents want to be perfect in relation to their children. They satisfy all the whims of his child. The only problem is that these children are beginning to think that the world revolves around them. Do not bow down before their children, just like them. Otherwise, they will grow up selfish.
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