Women, sometimes with the best intentions, can do things that not only do not help, but even harmful to man. How to motivate a man like him to inspire and why he was not in any way be helping?
Often great love,a woman for a man ready to put at stake everything, even itself. Three jobs, while it is in creative search, wait, when "everything will work out", believe that he will divorce or marry soon. A woman can live so long and that nothing ever goes blame themselves, thinking that it is a little trying.
Why can not we help the man? Unfortunately, the woman is really to blame, but that little is trying for a relationship, but the fact that pulled the blanket over himself and took an active male position, making the role of men just meaningless. While the woman provides the family, a man will not do, or will do for show.
A man must be a man, even in case of failure or problems with it should never be lisp, regret or empathy too. Stop a blind eye to irresponsibility, laziness and outright rudeness. Only a woman with low self-esteem is able to tolerate and forgive continuously, each time finding excuses.
An adult male is able to cope with their difficulties, to find a way out of a difficult situation and still help you. Its main support and the right motivation, and not assume its responsibilities in an effort to help.
How to support a man:
- I believe in him and see only the best quality. I do not even talk about it, your admiration glance will be enough;
- up home harmony and comfort;
- be in excellent elated.
How to make a man to become successful? Man best "grows" through the complexities, it is only from the comfort of your comfort zone, a person is able to change in their lives and development. How would it not sound tough, but as long as you help her man, while going to get a third job, he relaxes and loses self-respect.
Motivate a man, keep it, be it for a reliable rear, but do not take over his male function. Let him through the buckwheat and unpaid bills will feel uncomfortable the whole situation and begin to move. Responsibility for the family - it is the duty of man, so allow him to fully experience it. Your constant advice and teaching, your pity and constant desire to help - to kill a man of his masculinity.
Next to a man must be a woman, not a man in a skirt. Take care of themselves, their development, appearance, quality, return the currently inherent in this woman. A woman who respects himself and knows his own worth - the best motivator for men. And if a man does not appreciate you, do not cares, does not take responsibility for you, then it's just not your man, and the sooner you let him go, the faster will meet his. Believe in your man and give him a chance to be your hero.
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