As once said the great British politician Winston Churchill: "Diplomat - a person who will think twice before you say anything." But to be honest, we talk, women are very fond of. And in contrast to the outfits that we think over every detail, especially the topics of conversation do not choose. And for good reason. Sometimes, in order not to spoil the impression of themselves better to remain silent and cute smile. Unfortunately, few people today think about the power of words.
By the way, as prescribed by etiquette, there are topics on which talks in polite company and does not welcome. So, for example, it is considered bad form to discuss the "behind his" friends in common, their age, wealth, diet, prayer, health and personal life. Let's take a closer look what topic is better not to touch in conversations with men, especially at the stage of building a new relationship, to pass for a wise woman and the ideal companion.
"Former" topic.If you really really want to talk about this topic, please call a friend. In conversation with a man in your best interest to this issue remains unresolved. Firstly, if you are talking about this man, you're still thinking about it. And this is your man will be unpleasant. Secondly, if you speak ill of him - it causes a lot of questions, for example, why have you met with him, if he so bad, or whether you're talking shit behind my back about my current man, and may he, in general, was right that you I threw. If you speak well of him, it seems that you're sorry that parted and it will cause irritation. Remember, you most like when your man starts talking about his ex?
Do not get smart, especially if not in the subject.It is enough to look silly people who do not understand the topic, trying a connoisseur to someone to prove something. What it does not understand - this is normal. Therefore, if this is not your topic, it is better to listen in silence. Also, do not try to drag a man in the subject in which he does not understand. Firstly, it is interesting and it gives you to understand it and, secondly, well, he really does not know what you better you do - shugaring or laser hair removal, and feels pretty in this situation stupid.
Admire other men. Your man is trying to be your best and if you enthusiastically tell how well done your friend's husband - and she bought a car, and were brought to the Maldives, your man will regard it as a reproach to his address. He hears "You're not good for me, bad try," even if nothing you do not mean. Therefore, such talk only spoil his mood and cause tension between you. It is necessary to you?
Talking about his family. He likes you and your opinion is not indifferent to him, so be extremely sensitive to the feelings of his friends and relatives. He knows them for a long time and they are a part of his life, a part of him. Therefore, the criticism against them is seen at his own expense. If you do not like his mom, dad and friends - and then you do not like. Also with sensitive approach to his appearance, do not try to change it immediately, he lived for so many years, and it all arranged, and you liked it that way it is.
Do not say hints.This is a favorite topic of women. At first, something he hinted, and then be offended that he did not understand. But now we will be disappointed: Men, in general, do not understand all of these views, tones and hints. they also did not have telepathy. Moreover, all this excessive and contrary to the logic of the mystery reticence makes them irritated. Therefore, if there is something you want it to do, or something you do not like, tell me about it directly. The best way to get an answer to your question - is it set.
Without details.Why would a man know how much time you spend in the beauty salon, and what procedures are you doing to be beautiful, as well as how much you need to spend time on the treadmill, so this one is not a piece of cake deposited on hips? Well, for what it needs all these intimate details? Of course, anyone can get sick and do not need to pretend to be a magical fairy, we are all human beings, but also the extra physiological details completely useless. As well as information about how many endured your girlfriend before she "brought her to the registrar." Leave all this extra information left out, do not hammer his head. There you are, and he's about it and talk.
Public humiliation. Even if you are really good at something better than his men and alone can on this subject to make fun of him, do not allow yourself to such behavior in humans. Did you enjoy that others will think that you have chosen as their companions in life henpecked, not decisive and strong man. Of course, if more important for you to let everyone know your opinion about abstract topics, as well as how you are smart, erudite and witty, but not the comfort in your personal life - act. But think about what you really want - to win the argument or to be happy?
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