Who of the mothers do not know the feeling of icy fear for the life and health of her child. From obsessive feelings and thoughts can not escape or hide. Why do I need to learn not to worry about the children and how to get rid of the constant feeling of fear
When the light appears the long-awaited baby, parents' life, but first of all mothers, is changing dramatically. Virtually the whole world to fixate on a small native lump - this favorite such precious and such a vulnerability. As if nothing had happened - this idea haunts mothers no matter how many months or years of a child from birth. So you want to protect your child from all evil, so connected experiences, round the clock monitoring and other various methods of maternal care and protection. And many moms do not even realize that it was her, as it seems "good" thoughts and feelings about their own health krovinochku and attract misery and disease to her child.
Once upon a time many years ago when our family had only one child, all sorts of horror stories were firmly in my head: what would happen to my daughter, when I'm not around. I could not work in peace, I could not go to visit my husband and friends, or somewhere else without a child. In my head now and then pictures were created all sorts of troubles and misfortunes, which every now and then lay in wait for my baby at every step. And this despite the fact that I left her not to strangers, it has always been the native people - grandparents, father. Still, anxiety never left me when I was not there with my daughter. Of course, I myself did not like this state, but I could not help myself.
In our family, three children. When growing up the middle child, a son, as a child, he suffered a serious illness and a sense of mortal fear for his son's life since few years, did not leave me, do not give sleep at night, did not give a normal life, in my head was just anxiety, fear and experiences. In parallel, the youngest daughter has grown, due to worrying about her son, fear for his health, permanent exhausting trips to hospitals, doctors, all kinds of art, I did not have the strength to survive and even about her. Besides, I could see that it grows healthy child is sick is very rare, and if they got sick with something, it is very easy to recover. And I always towards her think, "everything will be fine, she has a strong immune system, will soon pass." And over time, I realized that this is true, my thoughts are correct, they work!
Illness son took me to the passion psychology, spirituality, studying various spiritual practices.
I realized that for my children was all good, you need to start with yourself, work on yourself, the thoughts in my head. And instead of a bad draw good. As soon as I realigned my thinking, I removed the fears and worries, the son of the illness was gone without a trace, without drugs, pills and doctors. For many years, he is healthy, and the disease and its consequences in the past. I ceased to worry and fear began to work on improving their psycho-emotional state.
You certainly had no time to notice that the children of the street, so to speak, for which parents are looking a little and little pay attention, rarely get sick, rarely something bad happens, they grow more attuned to the world with them and achieve success in life. And, as the saying goes, "too many cooks spoil the broth" - and dress for the weather, and buy expensive products, and make sure that nothing bad has happened, and the child is sick, and so on. Because those parents who do not worry about their children - do not create a negative aura around them and do not attract him. This does not mean that you have to drive a child on the street, even as he wishes, and lives. Not. We must learn to not worry and do not be afraid.
Communication mom and baby
In addition to the physical world is the world of unrevealed, inaccessible to human understanding. Regardless of whether we believe in its existence or not. It is a world of emotions, feelings and thoughts have a powerful influence on us.
Every thought we think is material. Any emotion - a bundle of energy that affects the person, even though we do not see and can not touch it. Anxiety, fear - it is a very strong emotion and energy it is also strong. When we experience fear, we are surrounded by negative energy that attracts like a magnet, all the bad things. And the more we fear, the more we are fueling the negative energy. Since man is bound to happen that what he fears. This is the law of the universe.
Emotional bond mother and child is extremely strong,Mother and child on a lifetime connected single umbilical cord. Mom's heart will always feel that with a child something happened, let this child was well past 30. Similarly, a child - if Mom takes antenka emotions towards him. Therefore, my mother is a great responsibility for the manifestation of his own emotions. Mom will feel and fear the child will be moody, sickly and weak. Will be thinking "what is he at me weak, sickly, miserable", the child is so be it.
Mom will be calm, balanced, harmonious, with a positive attitude in his head, the child will be calm, healthy mentally and physically.
Why can not worry about the children
Their fears we drawfor her child negativity and illness, To make it clearer, visualize that your child hangs over heavy huge cloud of your negative thoughts.
Their fears, negative thoughts, constant control, we interfere with the work of the Guardian Angel child. Because for us it can not connect to the child field and defend it to the fullest.
Our negative thoughts and feelings are passed child he seemed antenka accepts them and is also beginning to act up for no reason, cry, get bored and anxious.
What to do
Throw away all negative thoughts. Visualize in your mind the barrier - it can be a stone wall, armor glass, iron shield of which is broken away and fly off negative thoughts.
Build your thoughts only in a positive way: "With my baby will be all right", "like a child in kindergarten, he was there fun and interesting, it has a great mood, educators kind and considerate, "" a child is ill, but he recovers quickly, is easy to go on the mend, the disease will pass without a trace, and complications ", and so on. d.
Its positive and joyful emotions and thoughts, his calmness and confidence we give the child positive attitude, make it stronger Guardian Angel, we do biofield child strong, protecting it from harm and diseases. Remember that a mother's love is stronger than any troubles use it correctly.
How to get rid of bad thoughts. Exercise "hedgehog events"
Simple installation like "Everything will be fine", of course, help, and for a while distracted from negative thoughts, but they are weak and ineffective, there is need weapons stronger.
There is such a practice that helped me a lot at the beginning of work on myself and now I use it from time to time. Exercise called "hedgehog events", of which I learned from a book by a famous psychologist, writer, master of positive thinking Sviyasha Alexander. Apply this exercise can not only get rid of the fear for the child, but in any case, if there is fear or anxiety.
It consists in the following. When your head is born a certain adverse event and draws a picture of the tragedy, invent favorable exits from the negative situation, come up with a good ending. Like arrows-needles silently from a negative situation draws good - breaking into pieces and negative prorisovyvaya positive out of the situation. For example, there is such a fear: you left your little child who is able to go bad, for someone, he fell and bounce, he was taken to the hospital... (of course, every mother she draws the most terrible in my head horror stories). Connect the "hedgehog events": firstly, with my baby will be all right, I left the child with her grandmother (her aunt, a nurse), she stares the baby, and secondly, even if the child falls, nothing terrible will happen, some of the adults have time to catch him in his arms, the baby only slightly scared and laughing again, and thirdly, the child fell, and even hit, but the bruise is not terrible, the pain and fear passed through for one minute, and so on. d.
Prayers and blessings
Pray for your children. Prayer - a very strong energy message is encoded magic words that protect and preserve. You can read special maternal prayers the protection of children, "Our Father", or just in your own words to ask the heavens for help.
Wherever your children, no matter how much it may be years, bless their children. This can be done just like that, in the course of the day. Child goes to school, a kindergarten, a walk, mentally say, "I bless you, my dear."
Good and health to you and your children
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