Who among us does not dream to become a perfect mother for her child? With this role, each in their own way to cope - to measure the forces and capabilities, and often beyond their strength. However, the result does not always work the same as would be desirable. What to do?
Socionics gives an unequivocal answer: in the process of raising a child, use their strengths and observe the rules of interaction with the psychological type of your baby.
Mom - INTUIT: you have a strong intuition of opportunity or intuition of time.
Sotsionicheskaya help. Intuition features - the ability to guess the mind all the properties of an object or person. Even those that are hidden and do not appear. For example, make out an empty plastic bottle dispenser on a picnic or to recognize in man hidden gift. Understanding at Intuit as inspiration, it appears out of nowhere and all illuminating. Intuition of time - is the ability of the mind to link events in a single chain, and "understand time." Especially good are such people feel the right moment for the action or event. "Late in time" - it's about them.
Perfectly! Your thing - the ability to recognize the talents and abilities of the growing person. Mother-Intuit's a great pleasure to come up with the most games with the child and to monitor closely the manifestations of his abilities in any field. Educational books, toys, sea of literature and advice of psychologists - your element. But take care of your health, order, discipline - "narrow" places for you personally, and as a result, they were "limping" in the process of education. For you "tell" is always better than "show".
To correct the situation, turn in a circle with your child books interests and games on the theme of caring for his the body, in a playful way and teach the child to pay attention to your health and notify you immediately about indisposition. In the future it will become a useful habit to take care of their health. The second time - in the order of things and toys. Play in the "cleaning", form a team mate of his favorite toys, and learned that the order - it is easy and pleasant. Not only tell, but also shows its example.
Bear in mind, your tendency dream and exaggerate (and sometimes fib) can be perceived by the child as "authorized lies". Be honest with the child, otherwise there is a risk of the habit to lie.
Another feature of the mom-intuitov - excessive concern for the moving of the child, the fear of injury. If you have a very active child, which is a lot, and deftly moves is likely to have in the family grows sensorik. These children are much better "on their feet" and his own body than intuity. The fact that the mother-Intuit causes anxiety and fear, for the child-sensing - the enthusiasm and joy. For example, to run away from the hill, so dazzled. Of course, the need to monitor the safety, however, adjusted for its "intuitive" detachment from the material world. Try not to worry and to allow him to physically aktivnichat, to develop its strong function. Support it and move engage him. Along the way you 'natreniruete "a weak sensory, and will be closer to the baby.
Thanks to the care of my mother-baby Intuit will continue to grow in the conditions most favorable to the development of his natural abilities. And thanks to our advice-intuity mothers will be able to fill small gaps in education naturally associated with the peculiarities of the intuitive personality types.
To be continued
