Disorder Use: learn to enjoy chaos

It would seem that the mess in the house - the main enemy of every mother. He will be distracted, quickly find the necessary things, to keep clean, it creates a sense of chaos, not only at home but also in life. But have you ever thought that a mild disorder can even be useful for your family? Let's understand why this is so.

At first, mess - is a useful signal that it is time to make functional changes in the interior, to the most necessary things were always on hand.

If you induced order can not last a few hours - it's a clear sign that something needs to be changed. For example, the space that you have allocated for certain things. Whether it is for your daughter's hair clips or a tea towel. If you laid them on the spot, but after the first use, they are somewhere else, again and again, Organize their place where your house will be more convenient to take these things and to return.

Secondly, take as a given disorder in a child's room. This will show your child that you agree with it independently and safely pass the responsibility for the space around it. Let the child is responsible for the look of his room, and in what form will the things he dig amongst the chaos and wear to school.

It is important to set boundaries to the child at the same time comply with your rules in the rest of the house. By the way, according to psychologists, young children must go step guidance chaos around him, it perfectly stimulates their development.

From teenagers to those better not require cleanliness and order in the room, so as not to cause the opposite reaction. However, we must ensure that there did not stand dirty dishes, the remains of food and other unsanitary conditions. For the rest, let the order in its territory lies on his own conscience.

Thirdly, some people just are not designed to store your things perfectly laid out on the shelves, sort them by color and size, and spread every kind of children's toys in a separate box. Thus, it may not require from you that you simply do not need?

Think of the perfect order or minimalism - this is what you really need, or simply imposed stereotypes, how to look at the house, "the ideal mother, wife and mistress?" Maybe you just have to let things just did not roll under your feet, and have not been stuffed into a crumpled form on the cabinets?

Maybe if you stop to require themselves and their home compliance ideal order, it will improve the atmosphere in your home more efficiently than cleaning. That is good for the mess warm and calm family relations.

Fourth, mess stimulates creativity, is proved by scientists. If your house is cleaned so that the eye does not catch hold, you will be more difficult to come up with any original creative idea. This is especially true for mothers who work at home: copywriters, designers, bloggers, content managers, etc.

Fifth, the disorder can be a sign of your effective and productive work. Many people tend to put off important or not very nice things, especially the workers, stopping at restoring order.

So you got to make a report, but the time it is still there. It seems, on the desk clutter - Removed unnecessary, dismantled paper, washed a dirty cup on the way laid out children's clothes, dusted, sorted out the bag and so on ad infinitum, until the hands of the report did not reached. So people put off the really important things, justifying to myself that they have a lot of work around the house, because around this mess.

Remember, if the dishes periodically cleaned, deleted items, children hugging, and you (at least in theory) can be found, where that is - you're a good mother and housewife.

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