Every parent wants to raise her baby well. What do you personally invest in this "good"? Are your methods of education right - it Kolobok. UA plead with psychologist Lilia King.
But in the end the child grows up and goes to a psychologist for a long time (at best!), Or is torn, he does not live as he wants, can not fully show themselves, to create a family, to achieve success, etc.
- Do you want this future to the kid? I think that's the list we all need to periodically review, reminding himself of what not to do and slowly get rid of the harmful patterns of behavior towards the child - says psychologist and YouTube-blogger Lily King.
If a child constantly point out flaws, it will be always an unhappy neurotic.
If a child is often shout, it will be very tense, frightened.
If you constantly look for errors in the child, he will not be able to rejoice because his focus will constantly look for errors and defects.
If a child is hit, it will beat the other or become a victim of the tyrant, because at an unconscious level violence for him to become the norm.If a child is often criticized, it will always be dissatisfied with a perfectionist or a procrastinator or sloth.
If a child is to blame, he will unconsciously feel guilty and ready to sacrifice themselves, can become emotionally dependent or alcoholics / drug addicts.
If a child is often shame, he would be fixated on what other people think about it, or become a narcissist.
If the child is humiliated, he will humiliate others.
If the child a lot of demand and force (in school, housework, etc.), he may lose the motivation for all.
If the child to manipulate, he will manipulate you or become a victim of manipulation.
If the child giperopekat, he will avoid relationships.
