How to write a fairy tale and educate their children

Many parents know the situation, when they are trying to convey to the child some information, "repeated 100 times" - and good there. Then gradually running out of patience - and the family conflicts begin. But there is one effective way of raising children, which adults often forget - skazkoterapiya.

Positive effect from a huge well-chosen tales:

1. The child learns to empathize with the hero, put yourself in his place.
2. Tale helps the child to understand their feelings, feelings, motives in the actions of other people.
3. Thanks to the fairy tale the child learns what are the ways out of difficult situations.
4. Baby clearly see the consequences of the certain good and bad actions. For example, say that the truth is sometimes ashamed and uncomfortable, but in the end everything turns out for the better.
5. After a morality tale and a story of heroes child himself gets some experience, without compromising and stress.
6. Tale gives cause for reflection on their own and others' behavior, without lecturing and moralizing.
7. The child remembers the long tale and learns morality, which it has.

How to apply skazkoterapii

Do not try to tell the history of the child, when the conflict in full swing, the child is upset or offended, and you on edge.

Choose a quiet time when emotions have subsided and the child will not feel the trick is that you tell him or read. For example, let it be a time before going to bed.

Create the most comfortable atmosphere: dim lights, soft blanket and your warm embrace.

How to write your own fairy tale for the child

Define the problem, which will decide the hero, a situation in which it falls

Think of the hero tales. It should not be your child, but they do with the fabulous hero must be something in common and recognizable, even if your favorite item of clothing.

Tell us about what made a hero when faced with a problem. Do not describe the exact behavior of your child, speak covertly.

Describe what felt like a hero after his actions, what he was thinking how to find a way out of a difficult situation.

Tell us what was in front of the hero of options to do that influenced his choice. This will be a key moment of the story, it is important that the hero has decided to do the right thing voluntarily, but something (or someone) that pushed him to.

End of tale to be, of course, happy: in the end, the hero has conquered his fears, overcome difficulties, made up with friends and family and lived happily ever after.

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