Argue the pros and cons of early departure of a baby in the world can be infinite, but some things are obvious even to the most ardent supporters of this or that position.
pros nurseries
1. Mom can go to work. Perhaps this is the main advantage of the early separation of the baby from the house. But the period of adaptation to the new place of residence will probably be accompanied by a disease, and the first few months, it is possible you with your child will often be at home on sick leave.
2. Mom has the ability to change the situation and "rest" on the job. Unfortunately, the fatigue of the child - a complaint, even if often anonymous, on the Internet, so many women who are on maternity leave. It is better if the decision whether to give the child in the manger, is still not accepted by such motives.
3. Mode in a manger. You can be sure that a child's day is organized according to age norms. Will feed the baby, was packed to bed and bring to a strict schedule for a walk. Children are given a balanced diet, but for such food crumbs usually finish feeding.
4. Progress in the development of. Many mothers boast that it is the early departure of the nursery provoked a leap in voice, improving self-service skills, taught crumbs to communicate with peers. Another issue that occurs is still under stressful conditions, when the baby does not just copy the action of peers, and forced to learn new things at an accelerated pace, frightened unfamiliar surroundings.
5. With children involved and play. You can be sure about the presence of a child developing an adequate age gaming environment. It is a class for the smallest possible rare at an early age kids are still very restless: they mostly play with toys and run around. The main function of the tutor of preschool group - keep track of the physical needs of children, to warn of danger and help in case of difficulty.
6. Tempering for immunity. This plus the somewhat controversial, but some experts say: for a normal crib immunity is not an obstacle, and the first, "adaptation" of the disease - a temporary phenomenon. After pipsqueak get used to the manger, his immune system will eventually be better "trained" than the home of the child. Yet, think, and whether the child needs such a severe immune load it in a year or two?
cons nurseries
1. The baby will be uncomfortable and sad without a mother. All psychologists assert: up to three years, the child feels with his mother a single entity, and wants to be by her side 24 hours a day! When healthy, well-formed attachment to mother pipsqueak eighteen months will be reluctance to be in the manger or actively by crying, aggression and whims, or starting constantly ill. And this is not nothing but a passive protest and the desire to stay with his mother at home. In rare stress children from visiting nurseries can be manifested in a decrease in activity, bad mood and loss of interest in usual pleasures.
2. The child begins to get sick often. This problem stems from children's nursery, paragraph 1. Psychosomatic illnesses theory has already been recognized by many physicians, and for children it manifests itself best.
In addition, it is also important, the smaller the child, the less his own immunity. Many ENT doctors are advised not to overload the respiratory system up to 3-4 years. No wonder many parents for nursery children's chronic diseases of the throat, adenoids and ear infections, "suddenly" come against them crumbs become a constant headache.
3. An outsider can never replace home mom. Even the most talented teacher in comparison with her mother - a surrogate, and no development activities can not be compared to his mother's care. With every desire to give children love and good educator will never fall in love with them as a family. And so, taking into account that the nursery group usually consists of 10-20 children, think for yourself, is it possible to achieve the same individual approach to each of the kids as they would get at home.
4. Unnaturalness nursery environment for a small child. Even in the old days, when giving birth every year and families were large, these same families are composed of 10 children of the same age. In addition, while in the manger, the child torn away from the family, soaking at an early age that the adult world - is something far away, and he has no place there.
5. Losing precious moments of his childhood crumbs. Mom, tired at work, will not be able to fully pay attention to the baby at night. And my mother-housewife just lose the opportunity to see many happy moments in the development of their own offspring.
6. Socialization for the little meaningless. Children under 3 years do not play together, they do "close" their own business. And the confidence of parents, "so he was bored with me," "he reaches for the children" - nothing more than self-deception.
7. A small child can not complainIf it hurt in a manger. And teachers, unfortunately, are different. And another child may bite or push your crumbs, and you about it not even know. Just feel it from nowhere appeared a fear of the crib.
8. Up to 3 years the child's personality is formed and his basic trust in the world. Surely you want the kid was like you, rather than the teacher or babysitter. What words will hear your child from other children and adults of others is unknown. And the answer to the question: "And where has he ponahvatalsya" in this situation is obvious.
