Mom - the most important person in the baby's life. And if the man suddenly disappears, it becomes a real tragedy for the child, which could undermine its basic trust in the world. You have a short time to go and leave the crumbs with his grandmother or nanny? And since every time the separation is accompanied by tears and cries of a child, so you are trying to sneak in secret, while someone distracts the kid? Do not do this!
It is better to come up with a farewell ritual. The child will understand that if the "farewell protocol" observed, Mom will certainly be back. And even if at the moment, when you go away, pipsqueak initially going to cry, he immediately calmed down as soon as you walk out the door. And soon all will understand that my mother went to work, school, the store, or in other cases - it everyday and not get upset.
HOW TO say goodbye to the kid
Firstly, do try not to be nervous. Smile. Otherwise, he felt his mother's anxiety, the child will think that there is something wrong.
Second, be sure to tell the crumbs where you go and why and that you will soon come.
Thirdly, let a farewell to quickly and confidently, do not stretch procedure. As you know, many wires - more tears. And not only the child, but also yours.
Now it will be easy to miss, but do not be in agonizing anticipation: return mother or she's gone for good. After all, it can really inflict psychological trauma. And you will not torment the conscience of the fact that you were involved in the deception baby.
