Ability to adapt to human society - one of the main achievements. Unfortunately, today's parents are overprotective and their control do not give their children the chance.
Helpful children to go to school on foot. It is considered the path of buildings, trees, learn a lot. Now the road to knowledge on my own two feet is considered to be undervalued - of students in the school is brought in vehicles.
What is needed for the development of the will and intellect
For the development of the mind and willpower children useful to visit the cellars, dumps, play on their own - as though brutal as it may sound in the modern world. They need to gather in groups, communicate with their peers - the value of domestics companies to gain the skills to adapt to the environment is very large.
Especially for kids who do not have brothers and sisters. And parents are afraid to let go of their child step on my own - and deprive it of the opportunity to learn to make decisions.
The child has formed a lot of fears, complexes, which will further inhibit the formation of his personality.
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The experiment of psychologists: what have control
Psychologists have conducted an experiment. Mothers with children gathered in a room where there was a lot of toys - and began to observe the behavior of the guests. 4 groups were allocated mothers.
First parent strictly punish the kid: "Sit still! Nothing here is do not touch! "She did not touch anything.
Second mother was busy reading a magazine, talking on mobile. A son or daughter were left to themselves.
In the third group were mothers who motivate children playing with the surrounding objects. "Let's see what this!, - and played with him.
And the last mother, forgetting completely about the kid. it was interesting that room itself. They viewed the objects, toys, and children repeat after them.
Psychologists then evaluated the children's cognitive ability. It turned out they were more developed in children of the second and the fourth group of moms!
That is the strict control (with positive and negative color) is detrimental to children's development.
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