20 principles of good eyes and bring up child

The main task of the parents - to raise a happy child, you need to do very much love the kid and listen to his opinion. Before you 20 basic principles of education, written on the child's face, and so it is very simple and accessible to perception. It is how you feel and see your children, listen to them and be sure to take note.

• I do not need to indulge, I understand that not everyone is doing, and my whim can be fulfilled.
• Do not let me get used to bad habits because wean them will be very difficult.
• Do not discount me, makes me feel that my opinion and a decision is irrelevant. In such situations, I'm getting out of control and begin to behave very badly.
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• Never criticize me and make remarks in the presence of strangers. I understand you better if we talk alone.
• Do not make me feel guilty for every mistake committed.
• It is not necessary to always protect me from the results of my actions, I have to understand that every action there are consequences, and it depends only on me.

• Sometimes I start to act up, because thirst to communicate with you.
• Do not be upset when I say that I hate you, it is not true, so I protest against excessive pressure or guardianship.
• No need to repeat all of ten times, otherwise I specifically stop hear you.
• Never make promises that can not perform, I was very upset.

• I can not always properly explain what I feel, do not forget about it.
• Do not ask me to tell the truth, when you are angry and scolded me, I can cheat you out of fear.
• Inconstancy and inconsistency of your behavior and attitude towards me made me very spoiled.
• Never leave my questions unanswered, I will look for answers elsewhere.

Never laugh at my fears, I am because of this becomes even worse.

• Do not strive to be perfect in my eyes, I was very upset, when we realize that it is not.
• Do not hesitate to apologize if you made a mistake or were not right, it teaches me to do well in relation to you and others.
• I grow very quickly, so you'll have to frequently change their behavior and attitude towards me.
• Do not forbid me to learn new things and experiment, without it I do not develop.
• I can not grow a full and happy man if I will not be sure that your love for me is the most powerful on earth.

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