Every time the kid complains that he was bored, many parents begin to worry that they are not paying attention to their children. But what to do if you can not constantly play and entertain your child? Do not engage in self-flagellation. Many psychologists say that the child is useful to get bored.
How can boredom may affect the development of children? A look at the opinions of psychologists.
It turns out the boredom - a fruitful and a good start for further development.
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Now the children are surrounded by cartoons, gadgets, entertainment parks and a lot of toys. This makes them less susceptible to new emotions. For a child to experience the satisfaction you need to constantly come up with something new.
But there are situations when you can not here and now entertain the baby and play with him. He begins to wander around the house with a sad view. Give him to watch another cartoon - the easiest option, and a bad idea. Thus the child will not try to amuse themselves, thereby blunting their imagination.
Boredom - is to stimulate creative thinking
Family psychologists explain it this way: boredom is an incentive for creative opening for self-awareness and realization of their true, nobody and nothing imposed desires. When there is a visual impulses and solutions, the child ceases to think independently and develop creatively. And if you do not give him to watch cartoons, then he will find himself than busy. It's a baby! Yes, he can some time to be upset and feel discomfort. But, after a time fantasy baby will do the trick. Important for parents to adequately and calmly explain to the child that it is not always adults have the opportunity to play with him. child eventually get used and become more independent. But this does not mean that you need to completely abandon pastimes with children. Just as soon as they give a personal space, and otherwise contribute to the development of children's creativity. For example, if a child to play you need a blanket, then let him. If I asked to help build a house out of pillows, help. The main thing is not included in the game and not interfering. The role of the adult - to provide everything you need, and we are not talking about toys.
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