I think each of you has a story of life on how someone's pregnancy came as a surprise. In this article, we will focus on those pregnancies, the news of which, although it was a surprise, yet ended in the birth of babies. So, in some cases, there is a surprise and what to do about it?
unplanned pregnancy
This is exactly the time when the couple has no plans at the moment of the child, but suddenly a woman learns that she is pregnant. This option can be quite frequent. Of course, the first shock occurs. The resulting test result falls out of the blue with all the "awkward" moments, and after a lot of questions:
• how it happened (really, how does it means?);
• how to react to a partner (which, according to many, are still not aware of the origin of children);
• What would close (something they did not warn that children sometimes appear);
• What will happen to work / school (if the baby is completely off our cognitive abilities from the moment of conception until the first grade).
• disappears gym membership / how to change the figure / friend will say that (again mythically notions of physiological pregnancy and girlfriend true actually rejoice sincerely must a priori);
• material question (certainly important, it is not necessary to tell you how our grandmothers gave birth to war, and my mother got along without diapers). When a wise man once said to me: "God gives the child and give the child!")
• What do we do now (that this is a key issue and constantly pops up in my head).
What to do and how to make the right decision?
• First, take a deep slow breath and exhale quietly, preferably several times (this method helps in all stressful situations). Then gradually begin to take the news as facts of the case, and quite a happy event in the life of every woman. I must say a few words about what a serious and common problem of modern society is the loss of reproductive health. Number of infertility increases, health decreases, which is associated with many factors. But above all, we all know that artificial interruption is an extreme measure, and increase the risk of reproductive problems in the future.
• Once we realized, you can share with the person closest news. To begin with those who will support you in any way and help in the most difficult situations. Then it will be easier to move forward. It is not necessary and not advisable to ring up all and collect public opinion, to create a public opinion poll to decide. This is - your life, your relationship with your partner and him shared responsibility. Therefore, to understand all the most positive and pleasant moments associated with the appearance of the child, overcoming all fears and insecurities, you will make the right decision!
Pregnancy welcome / welcome
Yes, and in this case, a state of shock, because sometimes do not expect a rapid onset, and in the second case - genuine surprise. At such times, there are mixed feelings: delight and happiness planned miracle punctuated with fear not to lose it and maintain a pregnancy. Women often after a long wait (treatment failures, previous losses) feel a disturbing component neurotic condition. It is not easy to cope with the flow of feelings, sensations differentiate, to take consistent decisions. Then there are also the above tips.
In conclusion, I stress: in the era of large information capacity, the development of medical and psychological support to every woman has the opportunity to support and skilled care. Let every pregnancy will be a pleasant surprise and the desired event in everyone's life!
