At a certain age the child's aggression is the only way for him to say that he needed help. Your job as a parent - to find the key to this "secret code".
So, why a child fighting in kindergarten?
He has health problems. Hyperexcitability, the output of which provides the child through fights with other children, may be a consequence of increased intracranial pressure. How long have you examined your child? Perhaps now is the time to do it.
The child takes your example. If your family violence, aggression - the norm if he occasionally feels the force of fists older family members if he He does not know any other way of punishment, but the physical, it would be strange to expect from the little man a different style behavior. He was a child gets used to the fact that the rights and means one who is stronger.
The child imitates the heroes of cartoons and computer games. It's so convenient - to keep the child in front of the monitor, so it does not interfere with you to take care of business. For many parents, it is common practice, and they do not even know how much violence is poured baby with the TV or tablet screen.
Child inhibits the feeling of loneliness. You are worried only about how to make your child was fed, clothed, and that it is put to bed on time. And talk about? Ask what it today surprised, pleased, disappointed? You know how important communication for an adult, so why did you decide that the same does not need a child? Even as needed, so he is trying to attract attention through the fray.
Child - an outcast in her kindergarten group. Moreover - it can hurt. There are cases when the baby is ignored and bullied other kids because he had delayed speech development, or he wears glasses, or he is new. Reasons why children do not want to communicate with your child, can be set. Fists, he tries to prove that he is worthy to be accepted in rejecting his social group. But he does not realize that the effect of aggression achieved the exact opposite: a fighter no one wants to deal with.
The child has too much power. Inside it is built like a small motor that never shuts down - such is the nature of his property. What should he do with his excessive mobility, agility and restlessness, he does not know. Here are his hands, and do not obey. The child himself could not see how a couple of minutes bruises awarded several friends, and absolutely not out of malice.
Child otvoovyvaet a place under the sun. At home, he used to be the one and only, but in the kindergarten he has to compete with other children - for toys, for the attention of educators.
