According to the family psychologists, adolescence the most difficult, for both parents and children themselves. Because in this age it begins to actively manifest itself teenage negativism. It is manifested as follows: all the words of the adults, a teenager begins to deny, and that not only in theory but also in practice.
If the parents say that smoking is harmful, then you should try. There are some restrictions for the parents, to break are not recommended:
1. Do not rummage in the children's things. The child will perceive this behavior as a lack of confidence in him.
2. The same applies to the computer, and mobile phones.If you violate these prohibitions, the child closes in itself, and to make contact with them will be very difficult.
Learn about what your child love, attentive parents can in some respects, because children are usually difficult to hide their emotions. These features include:
1. Decreased while staying at home.If earlier the child could be at home on the computer or a book round the clock, but now it will be lost outside the home, and later come back. If the parents have noticed, it is by no means impossible to prohibit child be away from home, just put him reasonable limits, when to go home, but permissiveness, of course, be must.
2. The child has become longer than usual to talk on the phone.Usually, if a teenager comes to liking someone, he begins to talk more on the phone. Thus, if before he did it in the presence of their parents, but now he is trying to do it alone.
3. The child asks to increase his pocket money.Especially this topic focuses on the boys, because they have to pay for the costs of meeting. Try as far as possible to allocate the child some money, otherwise the child will begin to look for ways in which to take the money.
4. Changing the mood of a teenager.While the mood may change dramatically, it all depends on the development of relations of the child with the second half.
5. Changing the look of a teenager.One of the main signs that a child has fallen in love - it is his attention to his appearance. A teenager can experiment with your appearance. During this period, adult criticism is perceived with hostility. Usually all experiments end speed.
6. The emergence of contraceptives.Most often, the boys' parents found condoms. Psychologists advise parents to pretend that they did not see anything. And be glad that the child is smart enough to protect themselves. Make sure that the child has received all the detailed information about sex, diseases and contraception.
Of course, all these signs of teenage love can be called a conditional, so they are almost every teenager. Most likely to be opened to ask the child about his feelings.
