More recently, the process of birth of the child well-protected obstetricians, nurses, nurses and other medical staff roddomovskim. The fact that the Pope was present at the birth partner was not the question. Fathers cut circles under the maternity home with bouquets and nervously smoked only in order to see the bottom in the window of n-th floor exhausted face his wife, who has fulfilled its mission.
But times change, and we change with them. Today, the appearance of the baby can and should prepare for both - and moms and dads. There are all kinds of courses and schools for young parents, where in theory and in practice it is possible to get acquainted with the phenomenon of partnership delivery. That is, the pope strongly supports the mother to the finish, and then he, if he behave well, may even give cut the umbilical cord. But this is not all that easy ...
Achilles' heel
Yes, men are a priori cold-blooded, brave, resolute and courageous. However, some have their own "Achilles heel" - someone is not able to look at screaming in slime ball, someone can not stand the sight of blood, fainting, someone falls into a stupor from the smell of medication and the type of white gowns. There are those who feel in the medical atmosphere, with all its nuances is excellent, but the actual medical escorted "colleague" under the white hands in the fifth minute of his stay in the delivery room. So who of the stronger sex is not worth thinking about joint delivery? We have identified 5 types of popes, which let in rodzal strictly prohibited.
TYPE FIRST
Those who fear the intimate change of the type of delivery
Someone confuses "the whole process in detail," the consequence may slightly reduce the attraction to the adored wife. Here it is necessary to make allowances for those who have private heightened perception in some moments. There is no dispute: engaging in the process of labor is quite small. But this is the next stage of your relationship to the test the sincerity and strength.
In some cases, joint childbirth contraindicated couples who have unstable relationships or live fashion today "civil marriage", that is, without painting and rings. And during delivery the wrong side of the relationship will come out, for sure. And initially conclude between a marriage only for the sake of sex - all the same, for the sake of buying a spoonful of honey apiary. But this is another story.
The second type
Following the fashion of partnerships childbirth
As an argument, why a man wants to go on a partnership delivery, you can sometimes hear the following: my friend-friend-friend-Head did so and gave birth together.
Understand the Pope, if it ends up a list of reasons, it is not a basis for finding the next with his wife during labor, but only a blind imitation of others' behavior. First, you need to conduct among themselves educational and information session on the topic "Do I really want to attend this and how I can help your favorite?".
TYPE THREE
I feel a sense of helplessness
Yes, it also happens that already replied in the affirmative to myself all the questions, brushed off doubts, nerves - steel ropes; means nothing to fear. But there is a caveat: at some point, something unsettled, confused man and wants to help his wife, but he could do nothing.
In the end, he is not the same obstetrician here. In order to avoid any kind of awkwardness should be prepared in advance by visiting the courses young parents and, thus, to protect themselves from the emergency situations, which still can not be avoided, but you can not get lost and make the right decision. For example, to help a mother giving birth to breathe, to do a little relaxing massage, in extreme cases - to tell the anecdote (just kidding).
TYPE FOUR
Representatives of the "male" occupations
To date, the boundaries of "male" and "non-masculine" professions are rather conventional. However, there is the category, which include military, rescue workers or athletes.
The high demands on themselves and others necessarily manifest itself during childbirth. It is unlikely, of course, he would shout to his wife: "Come on, soldier!" or "Just a little bit - and the record is taken," but on the support and sympathy do not have to count here. Is that - on demand "combat" behavior in the spirit of the respective husband's profession.
TYPE FIFTH
Eternal KVN-crate
He joker and kurtuaznik with self-esteem above the stratosphere, so rodzal come for him at the scene for the next stand-up. Jokes, reprises monologues and stage worthy show "Make Me Laugh" ostensibly in order to remove voltage, this voltage will strengthen at times, because the main purpose of these dads artists - to draw attention to his person.
And the fact that his wife is giving birth, it's just a bonus to the presence of a magnificent person, the young man's father. Terribly annoying - as a woman in combat, and men in white coats.
P.S.And as if it was, no matter what the Pope met in the delivery room, all the doctors in one voice say: the only correct one, and the perfect partner during labor and delivery can only be the child's father.
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