When girls begin to play in a kindergarten in the role play, the role of the princess - always a special, one can say the status.
The group can not be a few princesses, because somebody has to be the servants and maids of honor. In this case, every girl wants to be a princess is.
Children believe that the princess can be the most beautiful girl in the dress or the most beautiful hairdo. They do not think about the moral qualities and begin to fight for the leadership solely through external attributes. Thus, the girls from an early age there is the desire to be beautiful (and not smarter or more talented than) others, in that whatever was to dress your best and be in the spotlight. So in the minds of the girls made up a false system of values, which in the future may have an impact on the character and way of life.
Naturally, the first strike is on the self-esteem of those girls who can not become a princess. In permanent leaders there is an opportunity to feel better than others, not putting any effort for this. Her beautifully decorate the parents, and it becomes a habit. And if for some reason disturbed desired course of events, let the little princess in the case of "weapons" - the tears, demands, whims, insults, accusations, complaints. And often such behavior becomes the norm.
The second category Girls who are forced most of the time to be in the role of servants and maids of honor, feels his inadequacy and inferiority. They are worse than others, because my mother did not make it in the morning beautiful hairstyles, do not buy new clothes. The foreground is not the child's personality and external data. The child can not do anything to break out of the role of a servant. This is even more hurting and oppressing him. He begins to search for the guilty, and guilty, as a rule, are the parents, because they are poor or are too busy and do not have time to weave beautiful braids daughter. Thus arises a conflict between the child and parents, which in the future could turn into a serious problem.
always will be third category girls, that "out of play". They will play alone or play will go to the boys that will cause concern among the teaching staff. This is natural, because the baby hermit comes out of a total range of communication, which in the future may lead to problems with socialization.
Nevertheless, it is impossible to forbid girls really play princesses. Trying on the way, they learn to womanhood, becoming the first notions of beauty, without which it is impossible to harmonious development of personality. The main thing - to organize the game the right way. And to do so should have the parents themselves.
If you have a home often gather the girls, ask them to create a club of princesses, where there are no servants, and all are on an equal footing. Suppose that in this club will be a serious selection and princesses will need to not only have a beautiful dress, but also know the etiquette, good manners, be broad-minded and intellectual curiosity.
Spend playful examinations for princesses in which each girl must prove that she is worthy to be a member of the club. Emphasize moral virtues princesses when girls read fairy tales, and grab the book where the main character in the first place is smart and good, and not just beautiful.
Do not buy the girls a lot of cosmetics, dresses, crowns and other "attributes". Try to captivate its joys of real life - sports, creativity, stories about animals.
Teach girls to share clothes, depending on the situation: it is possible to go on holiday, and this for a walk. Do not dress up the girl like a doll, if you just go with her to the store. It is important that the appearance was always neat, and the clothes were comfortable.
