Let us not be ostriches, hiding my head in the sand. It is impossible not to recognize that children are missing, although with them on "you can not talk to strangers," say parents and kindergarten teachers or teacher at the school. We think, once said, convinced - and enough. In fact, this topic is important to talk with your child often. And right message across, because the naive and open children often do not realize that over them in danger.
9 Before you important things to teach a child to protect him at a meeting with a stranger inadequate.
Child's Name - his secrets
Do not write the name and surname of the child on his things and do not do exactly stripes, do not hang in the children's trinkets registered backpack, lunchbox or not sign a thermos. Simply put, do not let the strangers and the chance to learn the name of the child, peeping at him. You know, why is it dangerous? If a stranger turns to the child by name, he immediately rubbed into his confidence - and can continue to manipulate the baby.
The child is important to understand that if a stranger (adult or youth) calls him by name, it should be alerted. Name and surname of the child - it's his secret. The name can be known only to those who know him, whom he called his name. If the name refers to the stranger, then - the secret is broken. This is dangerous. The man asks, "What is your name?" - this too can be dangerous.
If you want to help a good man lost a child, he would first ask as parents look to find them.
Do not keep secrets about TELE
Reassure the child that a stranger (and this teacher, and nurse and the guard, and so on) have no right to touch him "there." Very often strangers with bad intentions require that the child kept secret harassment to which he was subjected. Just try asking the kid quiet confidential tone, so as not to frighten.
Teach your child to get up to a high place and call PARENTS
If a kid is lost, it is necessary to remain in the same place where he realized that mom and dad not around, and around - the mass of strangers. Do not panic, but to stop, look around and find some high place - a bench, a tree, a step - up and call mom or dad.
Teach your child to run away from the car in reverse
We teach our children not to sit in the car with strangers - it is right. Let the child learns another rule: if next to him / braked sharply in front of the machine or it slowly behind him rides, and someone else's out of the car wants to get his attention, you need to escape quickly in the direction from which he I come. Such a maneuver would help him to gain time and find help.
Teach your child to shout "I do not know him!"
Active and restless naughty can at the playground escape from the hands of parents shouting: "Leave me alone!" Or "Let go!". Therefore, sit the child grabbed the stranger, to shout, "I do not know him! I'm lost!". These words give effect to attract the attention of others. Also tell your child that if he would clamp his mouth - you need to bite the hand that there are forces and escape.
FOR HELP TO RUN TO MOTHERS WITH CHILDREN
It is not often on the street in the public domain or police patrol car, so help better run to the mothers and fathers with children. By the way, dad with kids or couples more actively respond to a request for help.
IF it was dark, you need to run in the world and the people
In any case not in the dark porch or yard, and in the store, a pharmacy, a hairdresser, a bank - any public place, outside the door which is a light, and there are people.
IN DANGER right and good to be bad and rude
You can and should shout, swear, fight, kicking his feet, painfully biting, throwing things - to do everything to attract attention and get away. You can split a stone glass in the window and shout "Fire!", Looked out to residents of the home, in the room, you can reset the items from the shelves or on the wall. Violent behavior and the resistance itself may scare the intruder.
PASSWORD FOR THE FAMILY
It happens that strangers with bad intentions to offer the child "where it waits for mom / dad".
• Let a stranger call mom or dad's name. I called? Then let him call the password - the same code word or phrase that you come up with, if you suddenly ask someone of your friends to take the child out of kindergarten, school, or from the circle. The password must be an unexpected word, but rather a paradoxical combination of words that is impossible to guess, for example, "blue brilliant green", "striped hedgehog", etc.
• The same password can serve you and your child a signal that you need to get away from a dangerous place: you approach to the child, tell him the phrase - and crumb throws his toys and goes with you, without further ado, and whims.
• If the risk of a number, the child should dial your number and say the password, and then - the place where he is, so as not to waste time, you can quickly run to his rescue.
Protect your children! And be sure to discuss with your child, What are the 5 steps you need to do to stop a conversation with a stranger.
