Life goal for a teenager in the "transition to adulthood" to help, if not resolved completely, then at least to minimize the conflicts between him and his parents.
The vital goal is that the teenager knows precisely what he wants, that is of most interest to him and tries to make every effort to achieve it. Apomogat child to set some specific goals in life to try to achieve them need in childhood. But if you have missed during this period, it is not necessary to despair, because the start is never too late.
In establishing the goal of life for parents rebenkarol very significant,and they will have to sacrifice a large part of their free time. When setting the target for the installation podrostkanelzya rely on the fact that he is an adult and he will be able to solve their problems.
For example, if a teenager wants to do any kind of sport, it is necessary not only to help him with the choice and entry into the sports section, but honestly rejoice with him in the success or maintain failure. If your child's hobby became a computer to help him understand what he wants to achieve this sphere. This applies to everything that would not interest your child. Your support must be substantial and should not spare your precious time on this.
The "transition to adulthood" a teenager, there are only two main areas: the destruction of, or at the creation. Both of these areas are equally strong. And it is from the parents care and sensitivity depends on the direction that will choose their child, and that will lead to its further life. This choice will be the basis for the formation of harakterapodrostka and its future outlook.
