Parents have so much trouble! Feed krovinochku tasty and good, wear warm and stylish, train, and even build a home nest to daze it was comfortable.
Agree, we expect that the baby will appreciate it and will be a little grateful. However, in reality it turns out that Mom and Dad are worried about things that the child almost, so that there is, in general, do not mean anything.And what about our children is really important? What about his family and the parents they will remember forever?
A time when mom and dad are totally committed to child
You probably exclaim, "Yes, we dedicate every second of it!" Let's not play the hypocrite, because the child can not be fooled. And your baby is most appreciated those moments when between you there was no plate, no phone, no internet, no pots or even some other cases as a "mediator", distracting from the child. Only you and the kid! The child most of all appreciate the moments when you leave all your things to see along with it a cartoon, a cup of tea or hot cocoa, get together and go to the park making a snowman or make a bird feeder or apple pie.
Moments when the child felt under your reliable protection
All children are vulnerable, therefore, and in adult life wrap up warm memories of how mom or dad gently hugged, it was necessary to baby "get" nasty monster, kept tight by the arm and led away another footpath if there is a large on the way dog. Of course, there may be times when you will need to snap and ryknut on favorite, but sometimes a naughty "fruit love ", but they compensate for memory saving moments when a pipsqueak next to my parents felt the full security.
Words of praise and criticism of parents
Psychologist Pastor Dave Willis aptly: "The heart of a child - like soft clay, it eventually harden all the impressions received in early life. Children form their identity and self-esteem, understanding of its potential, relying heavily on the words that you speak to them in the first years of life. " Some of the wise and genius said what remains in the memory of the children of the parents - it is their voice and words that stick in the memory.
It is worth considering what intonation and speech taken away with him into adulthood, our children. There is still time to fill these words I've found love and support - they will be a lifeline for our grown-up children in the most difficult moments.
Relations between Mom and Dad
The first idea of the romantic feelings and love children "read" with the relationship of their parents. These inquisitive howcast fine scan our peculiarities in communication: the habit of hugging each other, kissing goodbye before parting until the evening, gentle words and funny affectionate nicknames. In short, all the little and big terms that will form the child a feeling that mom and dad next to each other well and safely, and later - will give the desire and create yourself with your loved one family.
Family traditions
You think, why do we need these traditions when life is so fast sweeps, changes and demands from us the incredible dedication? Even the children there love surprises and spontaneity? The answer: in family rituals, even the most simple - gather for dinner at the family table, go to the movies over the weekend or in a cafe in the evenings to play board games - hidden that same feeling of security to which we are all life aspire. When will know it "taste" as a child, it is easier to achieve in adult life, getting an amazing energy force feeding of the most ordinary things.
P.S. Do not forget the simple and wise truth: children do not appreciate what we have done for them, and what we have done with them.
