During the crisis period of obstinacy the children most in need of support, understanding and patience of a loving adult.
Experts have found that if parents encourage the child's desire to make their own decisions and give him an opportunity of free choice, he quickly starts to behave more responsibly. Only one must not forget that the organization is a safe space for the little man lies entirely with the parents.
Talking about the need for patience and support from parents, adults need to understand that patience does not mean permissiveness, and support - to promote all children's manifestations, and the word "no" should be in the range of known him concepts. Child should clearly know what is possible, what is not.
bans rules
Reasonable restrictions do not stifle the child's initiative. They help him to grow up. Here are a few rules for using this word: Prohibitions should be agreed between all members of the family. Mom and Dad have to join a united front, without introducing confusion in the child's consciousness.
Bans need to speak kindly, but firmly, not allowing the crumbs to use blackmail to achieve their goals. It is best to switch to a critical situation the child's attention on that - or whether more. Prohibitions should not be much to the baby stayed choice behavior and the development of self-control function.
Of course, we have to include your imagination to come up with each time that - something new. In addition, it is important to speak calmly and confidently. As a result, everyone is a winner: the baby satisfies his need for independence and learns to make decisions, Mom keeps a comfortable atmosphere in the family and the child to build confidence currently. Period "stubborn child" - a serious test for parents and children. And so, and others have a lot to learn, but it's worth it. We can say that this time - the key to your future relationship with the child, and the foundation for them you are laying yourself.
