It is no secret that parenting is changing our understanding of the world beyond recognition. We begin to talk in a thin voice, lisp, sleep standing up, do not pay attention to the mess and do other things that before seemed to us unacceptable. Humble, postpartum our lifestyle and behavior will never be the same, but now we understand their parents and friends with children.
Such a lot of changes, but the version of the site Kolobok.ua I decided to focus on four of the most interesting in our opinion. I think every mother can easily add to the list yourself.
We time the pediatrician. "Diaper must necessarily boil and ironed on both sides, and to boil water for bathing," says pediatrician. We have absolutely no time for this strange ritual with an iron and once healed navel baby bathing in water from the tap. But we are afraid that the doctor will take us for the bad irresponsible parents and sagely nod that are doing just that.
"By this age the child already need to lure." We do not share the opinion of the doctor, because Mama forums write that lure a child under six months do not need and we believe them. But to us behind, we say that giving the child curds and gruel. "The child - should defecate every day," says the doctor, and we confirm that what happens to it is not thought that we got some "wrong" child. It would seem that what we are afraid, we - adults, and it is our child, whom we are responsible and we know how it is better. But still we continue to lie.
We all Google. The entire first month of parenthood every free minute we spend in the search engines and to the parent site. The child's behavior all the time we have something troubling, with what happened to him everything is fine, we do not believe any experienced grandmothers, no doctors, no girlfriends. A unidentified people on the Internet somehow cause us confidence. We all Google: "Why is not he eating? Why does he eat so much? Why does he hiccups? Why is he so little or so long asleep? "
Another category of questions are those that we hesitate to ask the pediatrician, because he can take us to the bad parents or simply for the mentally retarded. Believe me, your doctor has not heard is, therefore, still better to ask the expert, who also has the opportunity to examine the child, rather than the unknown advisers in the network.
We constantly check to see if the baby is breathing. During the day, when the baby sleeps, and we have time to do their own thing, we come to the bed and put his hand on his stomach to make sure he is breathing. We can not sleep because of that night. Even if we do not wake the baby crying, we jump a few times during the night out of bed and check that everything is in order, if not fallen on his face pelenochka if he became entangled in a blanket.
Newborns much stronger than it seems at first glance, and it is able to breathe on their own, but nervous and harassed by groundless anxiety and lack of sleep mom - it's not very good for the baby.
All the time we take pictures of it. Just yesterday it seemed that a close friend, a tough business woman lost her mind because it is infinitely spreads in social networks photo of her newborn crumbs from all angles. Today ourselves can not stop, constantly photographing the beloved baby. And then we try to restrain myself not to lay out a dozen similar photos in Instagram. The same?! Well, do not you see it on them a completely different face?! In addition, the pipsqueak changing every day. And if not his photo, then what? Someone of you ever seen anything more beautiful than his first smile? It's the most beautiful baby in the world!
And be sure to ask, 8 What bad advice for child care, you just have to ignore it.
