November 20 - Universal Children's Day. On this day, the public pays attention to the problems of a happy childhood and a violation of children's rights. After all, children - the most vulnerable segment of the population. How to give your child a happy childhood? 10 ways that the child was happy, read on Kolobok.ua
On this day, November 20, 1959, the UN General Assembly adopted the Declaration of Rights of the Child, and in 1989 - the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Now November 20 all over the world pay special attention to the development of friendly to the environment for children. You will be able to bring happiness to your baby by following simple rules.
Allow your child to play as you want
The game - the main way of knowing the world a child. Through it, it learns to interact with others. Therefore, allow your child to play as long as necessary. There is no optimal age at which children should definitely stop the game. Just riding in cars three years old, will be replaced on basketball - fifteen. Do not forget to play with the baby themselves. Find those games that you and your baby are doing happy.
Do not swear at the child
Quarrels and cries when children violate the basic need for safety. The kid who grew up in constant abuse, will take this model of building relationships in adulthood, as well as grow more zakompleksovannym and unhappy man.
Do not compare the child with other
If you do not want to grow a human with a bunch of complexes, do not compare your baby with the other children. The only person with whom he can be compared, is himself.
Let him be a kid
Do not expect the reactions of adults from children. All parts of the brain to complete the formation of the '21. You need to be more patience with the children's spontaneous reactions: outbursts of anger and joy, jealousy, sadness and so on.
Teach your child to manage emotions correctly.
Do not forget about the children's little pranks. Allow the child to run around in the puddles, to lie on the grass, conduct experiments, playing snowballs, sledding. Let him as much as possible, but only if it is safe for life and health, and is acceptable in society.
Show your love every day
It is clear to you, and it is clear that you love your child. The children are so constructed that they need to hear about it and feel tactile parental love. Perelyub child impossible, and nedolyubili - completely. From the first days do not be afraid to take your hands as often as possible - so you are not accustomed to the hands, and accustom the baby to the feeling that he is surrounded by love and he protected. Talk to your child often that you love it - it's necessary.Hug the child as often as possible. Scientists say that children who receive a lot of tactile contact, grow happier and to feel the happiness you need every day to hug at least 8 times.
praise
any progress the child should praise. It has beneficial effects on their development and make it more happy and confident.
read books
None cartoon will not replace reading books child. Researchers say that it develops imagination, and taught him to read in the future. Even when he learned to read myself, let hear another tale of your mouth.
Make mischief with child
Fun and easy games and activities with your child helps form a trusting relationship.
Talk with your child as much as possible
It all starts with small things - Do not dismiss small howcast questions, explain everything that he asks in an accessible language, wonders what he cares about. This is especially important - confidential talks - for older children. Suppose that you are very busy, a lot of running, tired, but get at least 15 minutes daily for spiritual conversations with your child. Find out what you need 4 questions to ask your child every day.
Fulfill their promises
You want to keep a trusting relationship with the child for life? Then follow promises. If you are not sure whether can fulfill the promise, keep your mouth shut.
be happythemselves
In the happy parents necessarily grow happy children. Therefore, it is important to take care of their own happiness and emotional state. If you constantly feel overwhelmed and tired, you will not be able to fully devote himself to children.
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