Many parents worry about their child when it finds his first love. But in these moments need to transcend fear and tell the teenager about love.
What parents should prepare their child when he is in love? Psychologists are advised to explain to children at once, that love does not always justify our hopes.
Compatibility
Love - this is not proof that the partner is perfect. You can fall in love with a man who has other ambitions and goals in life. In the future, this could have a negative impact on the development of life. In the state of love should be guided not only the heart, but also the mind.
Emotional condition
Of course, when it comes to children's love, It makes no sense to talk about some serious problems. But even as a teenager relationship can tighten emotionally, although the benefits of this no. For example, when a child because of the relationship there are problems at school or in communication in the family, then this is the first bell, that kind of love only hurts. Unfortunately, it is a bitter fact of life to which the adolescent should be prepared.
self-respect
Love - is the ability to think about the person and his needs more than currently. In romantic relationships normal for both sometimes sacrifice their desires, needs and time. But we need to understand and distinguish the line between normal relations and respect for property damage. Loving relationship should complement our individuality, not be a threat.
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