Choosing a name for the unborn child - the anxious and exciting activity for moms and dads. How to choose a name for the baby, so it was lucky for him? What errors most often allow parents when choosing a name for your baby?
"What do you call a boat, so it will float" - sung in the cartoon one character. Indeed, for a long time after the man attached great importance. People believed that bears the name of the hidden information about a person, knowing the name could cause a person harm. Therefore, at the birth of the child was given several names - one "for the people", something that was called in everyday life, Others were given in baptism and kept secret, so no one can harm the baby, it is the second name, and it was believed present.
Bioenergetics, astrology and spirituality also believe that the name has a strong energy charge and can affect not only the character and temperament of the person, but also for the whole of its destiny. Believe it or not, each parent to decide on their own. But there are moments that are worth paying attention to when choosing a name for the baby.
Tips on how to not call the child
The name of a relative or loved one, who died early
It is believed that in this way for a child "tied" and "applied" the fate of the deceased person. And instead of having to carry out his task in life, the child will have to perform it even for someone or repeat his unfortunate fate. If you dismiss all the mystical side of this reason, it is understandable that, willy-nilly, the adults will be associated with the child a man whom they loved in life, and that no longer exists, unwittingly projecting character traits and life principles of the past namesake. Every man should have his own destiny, and hence its own name.
In honor of mom or dad
Here, a similar situation to the previous one, bioenergy speak of "overlaying" the fate of an adult with the same name on the child's fate. It is believed that the name of the Guardian Angel will be difficult to cope with the patronage right for two family members and the same name. Psychologists have another explanation, why should not be called in honor of mothers, fathers, grandparents - the child will be difficult to realize their individuality in the family, identify yourself as a person.
In honor of the famous people - famous movie stars, scientists, writers, etc.
Firstly, the first principle is repeated when power is applied will -nevoley the man in whose honor was named. Secondly, quite a famous name will always be attracted to a man -First in groups of children - kindergarten, school, then in adults - constant comparisons with his famous namesake. You do not want your Taras Shevchenko constantly pestered with questions when he would write another brilliant poem ...
Too complicated fanciful names that are alien to our traditions
Of course, all parents want their child to be the most-most, and his name was also unique. Therefore, try to choose a name for the complex and pronunciation and to read. In this case, you have to be prepared to ensure that the child and then an adult, will be subject to ridicule and insulting nicknames by peers, it will ask again for several times to make out exactly how his name, and when communicating easy to forget the unusual name. Therefore, before calling the kid Ayolantoy, Aladdin or Aristotelis, think how your child will have to live with this name. Remember that originality should be in moderation
A name that does not match with the name and patronymic
In our tradition we called the man by name. It is therefore important, choosing a name for the child verbalize all full name and consider its audio sound. For example, the Dominic Andreevna Golovastikova or Elvina Stepanovna pupik be discordant and cause a smile at others.
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