You do not have time to look back, but your baby has grown up and is quite accustomed not only at home but also on the street. Now he speaks pretty well, I learned to express their thoughts and asked many questions. He is interested in everything: why the grass is green and the sky is blue, why the birds fly and bugs crawling where this car went and why she did it. And so in a non-stop almost around the clock.
Why is he "Who Knows?"?
Kids 2-3 years at every turn to find himself something new and, therefore, interested parents. At this age, the child actively learns the world, wants to know everything and find out everything that interests him, he can only parent. However, there is a small caveat, it should be noted that if the crumb is too often "pochemuchkaet" - it is a signal that he suffers from a lack of attention.
How to respond to the 'Who Knows?'?
With the utmost seriousness. If a kid asks, therefore, he wants to be recognized as an adult and talk to him, respectively, without lisping. But remember that your answers should be simple and accessible children's understanding.
"Do not know" banned!
Never dismiss questions of your baby. It is strictly forbidden trick. Otherwise, hearing from you, "I do not know, I'm busy, you grow up - you will understand", the child will get the information elsewhere, and not the fact that it will be correct. You also run the risk of not only losing the trust of the crumbs, which is then very difficult to recover, but also its own credibility in his eyes. And it will agree, is not the same price, which in this case should pay.
How to respond?
Imagine a situation: the crumb-son went to his father and asked, and where Firebird lives? Dad, experiencing stress, trying frantically to remember all read the story, in which at least in passing mentioned the place of residence of the warm-blooded vertebrates. And then the son of issues: "Dad! Firebird lives in the nest! "So much for the children's logic.
In other words, when the baby something to ask, "descend" from the height of your age to the level of perception and look at the question of his eyes. Pofantaziruet together.
Always support his desire to explore the world. Praise for the conclusions drawn, because without this pipsqueak will not be able to develop self-confidence, but it is extremely important.
Sometimes, instead of immediately give an answer to question the kid, let him try to find the answer. If a child has already read, give him a book on the subject matter. Or, if possible, include a cartoon, where there may be an answer to the question of the child.
How to respond to uncomfortable questions?
It happens that the kid asks questions at the wrong time, and those from which you want to sink into the ground. Try at this point to switch his attention, but then (when stay together) must be remember and explain why "in order uncle did not have one foot" and "dress like a grandmother's aunt curtains. " At the same time make a soft focus on the fact that everything that the kid asks - it is important for you, you just have to know when and how it is possible to ask such questions.
Teach "Who Knows?" Ask the right
In a world of plenty of adults, feel free to ask what they do not understand. These are great to complicate your life and make a lot of mistakes along the way. And all because a child have a "beat back" the desire to ask questions, or have not learned how to ask them.
To this did not happen with your baby, the first thing you need to do is to explain to the child that does not know - it's not embarrassing. It is a shame not to know and not to seek an answer to the question. And to search for answers does not become tedious for the child in the test, turn it into a game. For example, ask your child, why the sun shines? Why do birds fly? Then switch roles. Or ask the kid to make an interview. Choose a theme, for example, as you pointed out his last birthday and the most successful issues define any prize.
Another entertaining game, which is very like the kiddies, "What is what?", The rules are very simple: imagine that you - the master and ask: what is high? A child, for example, says: pole, house, man. You, in turn, offer to compare, and that the above - house or pole? In this game, children learn to compare, summarize, begin to understand the meaning of such abstract concepts as "height", "width", learn to classify objects according to various criteria.
These games very much, the main thing - your desire to give her a little 'Who Knows?' Attention. Always remember: if the child turns to you with a question, then, that you and he says expert shows you love and trust.
