Probably every family children are fighting among themselves for the right to be the best: the nicest, most beautiful, most beloved parent. In this case to protect children from the conflict of jealousy and keep peace in the family?
While one child in the family, it seems to share such great love and affection between several children impossible. But after the birth of her second child understand that all doubts were in vain and love Mom and Dad will be enough for everyone.
Only children do not understand, so jealous, and in a fit of jealousy and tantrums arrange fights. And only we adults can help children understand and believe in what are very fond of each. How? Their simple actions, attention and tact.
It is very important after the emergence of a new family member, a newborn crumbs to continue to pay sufficient attention to the older child. Now it is very important to him. He must understand that it is still necessary and important for the parents. Constantly talking eldest child that you love him, it is important to hear these words every day, several times. love hugs and frequent words will soothe every time and give confidence crumbs, to recharge it, as though the battery.
Try as much as possible to maintain the family structure and routine, which existed up until the birth of her second child. If you go on the weekends the whole family in the cinema or theater, keep walking tradition. The first time, while little brother is very small, you can walk instead of theater all together in the park. If the tradition in the evenings laid senior sleep, read a book before going to bed or telling tale - continue to do it, do not throw the baby one, it gives an alarm that he was excess.
All have attracted senior to care for the youngest. Let it all over take part: pour a means for bathing in vodichku for baby, baby clothes bring out of the cupboard, lucky pram on a walk. Of course, that all the makes under your supervision, but do not refuse to help. So it will feel involved in everything that happens in the family.
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