We women often complain that these men from getting smaller every year. Bearing in mind that the representatives of the male are often weak, irresponsible, infantile, unable to make decisions and take responsibility for their words. How to bring out the boy a real man?
After all, the parents bring up their sons "unreal." Of course, it is best if the boy has a positive masculine example - father, grandfather, uncle, coach, who is involved in his upbringing. But the role of women in the upbringing of her son is of great importance.
In the first three years of life the baby very closely attached to his mother, and at this time it is you are building its relationship to the world. Correct mistakes made in this period in the future will not be easy.
A happy family.Only happy people can raise a happy man. If in your family there is love, mutual understanding and harmony, then you do not have to make any special effort for the education of his son. This will happen by itself. Women in these families are confident and are not prone to overprotection or lack of attention to the child. As a result, he did not grow up infantile "mama's boy" or spoiled "idol of the family", who believes that the world revolves around him.
Respect for her husband, and men in general.Never scold her husband with a son, do not show him disrespect or neglect. Otherwise, the boy will be inclined to relationships, self-doubt, feel like a failure. If the father is not a good example for his son (or abuse alcohol dissolves the hands) for Welfare of the Child psychologists recommend as soon as possible to break the co-dependency, even if I have to do to destroy the family. It is better to raise a child on their own, than to expose him and themselves psychologically abused.
Do not doubt his mother's and women's solvency. Often repeat yourself what you are good mother. Confident woman infects their confidence of their children, they feel protected. She rarely permits Mistakes in RaisingAnd if they happen is not afraid to admit them and apologize.
Realized in the profession or hobbies. Women, who for the sake of motherhood refuse career, hobbies and entertainment, take it as a sacrifice to form in children addiction, susceptibility to manipulation and guilt. To successfully implement the woman, the child becomes the center of the universe, they are easier to relate to their children growing up, easier to let go of them, and encourage independence.
Encourage all the manifestations of the child's independence.Even if you are not comfortable to let him do whatever he forces under, to make decisions, and take responsibility for them. If you constantly take care of him or to keep "tight rein", he will grow listless, passive, weak-willed and unsure of the man himself.
Also be sure to ask about how to raise the child, based on his psychological type
