We all want to raise a child happy. But often we go too far constant "it is impossible". Psychologists say that the ban is necessary, but in moderation. And there are things that it is not necessary to prohibit all if you do not want to grow infantile adult.
Often we do not allow anything in good faith, that the child did not break something or soiled. But we deprive him of initiative. To grow a child's self does not need to prohibit these 6 things to do.
Run, jump and shout home. What are you doing in native walls after a hard day? Relaxing. So for the child active pastime at home - rest. So he throws all the emotions. Need to behave properly in public places and at home the child must be allowed to relax.
To say "no I do not want."The child is entitled to their own opinion. If you forbid him to say "no I do not want", then you teach him that his personal boundaries - are not important and may interfere with anyone.
Make noise and play an active on-site. Noise can not be in the clinic, in the museum, in the store. But court established that the child I played there actively and loudly.
Yourself there. If the child is still poorly holding a spoon, then organizes his space for food and clothes you do not mind staining. If you prohibit him alone there, it will be a long time to feed with a spoon.
Express themselves creatively.Of course, not every parent with a smile and happiness perceive wall drawings in black felt-tip pen on the wallpaper, but you can not forbid the child to express themselves creatively. We need to create conditions for creativity. If you know that the child likes to draw on the walls, stick coating for painting and show where it is possible to do, and where not.
To help.You want your child to help you when he grows up, do not frighten him at an early age. Barring help you because it will drop, stained, or break, you are discouraged to do so in the future.
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