We talk about the 5 things on which parents must give up the child to become happy.
1. Do not project your expectations for the child. You wanted to become a pianist, took the child to a music school, he did not like. Then stand back, let baby self-realize themselves.
Decide once and for all that your child does not have to implement your dreams, it is - another person.
2. Do not criticize. Regular observations affect the self-esteem of the little man for the fragile psyche is a real blow, from which then have to depart. Try not to express comments sharply, to strike a balance, praise and encourage children. And if he is still done wrong, do not say that he is a bad / you do not like it now, and so on.Say that it was a bad thing.
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3. Do not patronize beyond measure. The child must gradually integrate into the world and adapt their own. Parents remain for him encouragement and support, but some decisions he has to take alone. Children who are looked after beyond measure, grow infantile and insecure.
4. Do not raise your voice. Sometimes it is very difficult to keep from screaming, but goes along with it, and all constructive conversation. If you want to reach out to the child, to lead a normal dialogue with him, stay calm.
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5. Do not sacrifice for the sake of the child. And what about my mother then, if it does not receive from the child shall return? But the child can not require such victims.
Better by example show the child how important it is implemented, in spite of the family, despite the children. Balance is very important for happiness.
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