"Do not born beautiful, and born happy," says the proverb. Indeed, beauty is a relative concept. The main thing is to feel beautiful - this provides confidence and inner light in his eyes. But to have it all - really happy. How to educate the daughters of them to grow beautiful and happy?
All our complexesand weaknesses, failures and victories in adulthood from childhood. This is my mother's voice, which sounds in our head, and assures us that we are on what not capable, or, on the contrary, we can move mountains. it's Dad attitude towards the family, His wife and children, to their male responsibility, which left its mark on the rest of our lives, the ratio of men and to themselves. Any action parents can affect the lives of their children in adulthood. Therefore, adhering to certain rules in the education of his daughter, you are helping her to achieve happiness and inner peace in the future.
Confidence that she is beautiful. There are plenty of beautiful women who do not perceive themselves as such, as parents them of this was never told or criticized their appearance. It is a source of low self-esteem, complexes, be ready with the first counter, which will draw attention to it.
Also, these women are often victims of domestic violence, because subconsciously feel that they deserve such an attitude and nothing better to them "does not shine." If you do not want such a fate for her daughter, praising her appearance, even if it is not an ideal of beauty. Reward attempts to care for themselves imparted good taste, record girl vsportivnuyu section. After all, the beauty - it is not so much the external data as the ability to work on yourself and present yourself to others ..
Love does not have to earn. Often Demonstrate daughter that you love her even when she is naughty or you are not happy school performance. The idea that you can not love just like that, that love must be earned - the cause of the victim complex. Often talk to his daughter that you love her just like that, and you will love even if her behavior upsets you, kiss and hug.
Cultivate kindness and compassion daughter. This is a very important quality for the disclosure of femininity. Let her take care of loved ones, pets or plants. Be grateful for caring in your address.
Activity and Leadership.Encourage initiative and leadership qualities in the child. It is not necessary to impose a stereotype that should be the main man, and it can only obey. This position is not relevant in our time, when a woman can not choose between family and career, and achieve success in all areas of their lives.
Autonomy and self-service skills.Everyone, no matter male or female, must be able to take care of yourself and loved ones. Let the child will have their own area of responsibility in the home, such as washing dishes. It is also important to impart simple skills of self-service - to be able to cook a simple meal, sew a button, and so on.. And if something does not work you can always call for help relatives.
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