Our children spend half a day in his first "alma mater", and it is clear that the first thing we ask their offspring when they met at home, "How was school?" Sound familiar, and familiar dialogue: "Well, how are things at school?" - "Fine". And yet. No longer elicit - an issue if a magical effect on the child and the "barricades".
How could really find out what was going on in the child's day at school? Ask a question correctly. Psychologists on the resource Huffingtonpost offered 25 questions to find out "How are you doing at school", not injuring the child and not allowing him to answer him a word. And most importantly - give a child to believe that are really interested in his life.
1. What was the most interesting in school today? And that the worst thing that happened to you today?
2. Tell me something funny, what are you laughing now?
3. If you could choose with whom to sit at the same desk, who would you choose? Why?
4. What you have in school is the cool place?
5. Have you heard today is a strange word? Maybe you said something strange?
6. If your teacher has come to us today on a visit that he said about you?
7. Who could help you today?
8. Perhaps you helped today?
9. Tell me, what news do you happen to know?
10. When you feel like the happiest today?
11. When you overcome boredom today?
12. If aliens landed in your class, and took some of the students, who would you want them to take away?
13. With whom would you like today to play one of those since you never played?
14. What good has happened to you today, tell me?
15. What word your teacher often repeated today?
16. What do you think, what would you most like to do at school?
17. And that last thing I would like to do?
18. Who of your class of pupils you just need to behave better?
19. Where is the school you most often play at recess?
20. Who is the funniest student in your class? What he is considered funny?
21. What do you like best / was delicious in your school lunch?
22. If tomorrow you become a teacher, what would you do?
23. Would you like to someone from your class go? Who is this student?
24. If you could change places with someone in the class places, who would it be? Why?
25. Tell me about the three situations in which you wrote with a pencil at school today?
Perhaps these questions will draw you a complete picture of what is happening in the school with your child, but they will become a bridge to your daze. Remember, happiness, when you understand. Let your relationship will be mutual understanding and support!
