In all the family, there are situations resembling the "no-five-seconds-explosion-volcano". For example, in the morning you need to quickly get ready for school, a kindergarten, a doctor, and mom and dad are doing everything possible so that these fees have gone smoothly. Persuasion, persuasion, appeals to reason, jokes, schekotalki and other methods, but in vain. Child is stubborn and does not want to wake up, brush your teeth, put on "These tights" is "here this mess" - that is a favorite Backscratcher starts full whim and is about to bring their parents to distraction.
That's the climax comes into force stop words. "So.. you finally wear shoes?" - and the child heard "magic word" quickly puts everything on the way doedu porridge and a sandwich. Checked!
What is the force?
The child knows that this word - and it is not necessarily obscene (just kidding!) - magical. If Mom or Dad it uttered, and you did not desired, then everything - Achtung, Achtung, all hiding! "Everyone, stop, I beg you as a person, just stop, otherwise it will be worse for both of us!". Only shorter. In a word.
STOP-word - it is the red light, flashing light, followed by an ugly, destructive, shameful scandal can begin.
We act according to the rules
Chtobs STOP-word exerted their magic on the hysterical offspring, should follow a few rules.
• The child clearly knows how it sounds STOP-wordAnd warned that would happen if he heard it, do not stop their "performance."
• Parents do not often use the word, otherwise, it is of the "magic spell" will become commonplace.
• STOP-word how to call for help can use both the parents and the child.
Why stop words work?
If we are difficult for adults to stay in a burst of negative, the child, with his unformed hormone the system when the "brake" is not configured, calm down and stop Snuffles protivnenko voice, yet more difficult. BUT STOP-word - it is the parents call for help. And - what is most surprising - a child, he heard the call begins to behave appropriately.
What word to choose?
Any. Yes, yes, Liu-bo th. You can tell your child, "my bunny", but do it in a tone that affectionate word as STOP-words It will affect the child as a cold shower. Instantly and smoothly.
All the matter in the moment of incandescence - the child feels that the mother of "is about to come out," Alien ", and then all will be bad." Plus - intonation and facial expression, these two terms are obtained as something of themselves and loved scion reads "signal" brutalized his mother's view of the one-two. Checkmate! To be more precise - to avoid communicating "obscene language" and that it is more important, without manhandling by the pope. Bingo!
