All parents should be aware that their conflicts and clarify the relationship is extremely negative impact on the psyche of the child. What consequences result in a quarrel in the family and how to fix them?
If you are in the midst of emotion could not hold back from moving to higher tones, try to avoid the mutual insults, take it easy and desirable to make peace with the child. Because the effects of quarrels and conflicts when children can have unpleasant and sometimes unexpected for you is not very good consequences. And in order to prevent or minimize them, should show the child that he is not to blame for the conflict of parents and try to explain the words which he understands what happened, for example, Mom and Dad just do not understand each other. And never carry their aggression on the child and not to "round up" their anger on him.
Consequences of quarrels with child
1. Disobedience and bad behavior
When a child is watching regular quarrels parents, he is starting to misbehave, act up and roll tantrums. This is a consequence of fear, anxiety and feelings violent conflicts in the family, that cause the kid in a storm of negative emotions with which he is unable to cope.
2. manipulative behavior
Sometimes parents, quarreling among themselves, feel guilty towards the child who witnessed the conflict. In the end, trying to make amends and go on about the children's desires and whims. Child quickly realizes this and later uses it to their advantage.
3. Mental disorders
During the quarrels in the family the child is under the influence of extreme stress. For this reason, the kids, in front of which occur frequently violent showdown can torment fears, Nightmares, stammering, nervous tics and possibly even mental illness.
4. Decreased immunity and other diseases
If a child often becomes a witness of scandals in the family, it is always in a state of stress. Under the action of stress and reduced immunity deteriorating overall health, and also can appear psychosomatic disease.
5. Difficulties in the future when creating your family
Children, even as adults, copy the behavior of their parents. And if he sees constantly cursing mom and dad, the kind of relationship in the family, he is considered normal and can become an agent provocateur of scandals already in my future family.
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