All parents want to raise their children with dignity and are afraid that they grow loose. But many are too demanding for children. How do you know that you are too strict in education?
By the way, is too strict mothers psychologists are assigned to one of the types of toxic parents who are able to spoil the child's life. Of course, a child must have rules of conduct, which it should, but sometimes parents are frankly too far. Which indicates that you are too demanding of the child.
You're a mom-General, which gives instructions. If your child every now and then hear that he is no slouch, not shorkatsya legs when walking, drinking water is normal, it is going quickly - this indicates excessive demands on him. In this case, it is no longer just to hear my mother and she has important requests repeated many times.
You often threatening.Your child hears from you that you will throw his toys because he scattered them, will give a stranger the boy his stuff. So do the parents too demanding. Warn about the punishment of the child is necessary in case of violation of rules of conduct, rather than on a permanent basis.
You rarely praise and hug the child. Strict parents continually find fault with the children and consider unnecessary "baby talk." From you rarely hear the praise, also rarely do you hug or kiss the baby.
Your baby is constantly lying. If you notice that the child is constantly lying, you may need to review your educational methods? Psychologists say that they are too strict parents, children often begin to lie to avoid punishment.
You do not allow your child to play the way he wants. In your house it is forbidden to make noise, and cubes with letters are not meant for the construction of the garage, and folding of words. If you give your child does not show imagination in the game, then you are too demanding for him.
Reports to the child at his friends.You plant a half-turn and can punish the child in front of his buddies. And now remember whether it was pleasant to you, when your parents did the same thing?
You do not delve into the essence of the child's actions. If you are told that your child had a fight, then you punish him, not even figuring in the incident. But he could stand up for the girl that hurt others.
Put too high a bar. For you, there is only "excellent" or nothing. child's efforts do not deserve your attention, but the highest awards and evaluation.
You - a strict teacher. If your child is playing, you play it turns into a study. If the draw, you remind us that any paint color, etc.
The child is afraid of you.If the child chooses not to share with you their problems and experiences, so he is afraid of punishment.
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