Modern people live in an endless stream of information, and can not imagine their life without gadgets, social networking and online communication. Very popular are the parent vayber chats in the past few years.
With the help of a special application on the smartphone parents and school kindergartners create groups that can communicate and discuss important issues relating to children. Parents are divided into two groups for some - it's a great opportunity to talk and learn a lot of new information and the child, without leaving home, and other such groups - a living hell. And many parents the next time the audio signal on the phone starts to twitch his eyes. Let's find out why?
Parent-viber chats / istockphoto.com
Initially, these chat rooms have been created to ensure that a teacher or caregiver can remotely communicate with parents, decide important pressing issues warning about changes in the schedule, no more. But in fact, this has resulted in hundreds of questions, discussions and correspondences for the day and busy parents, difficult to master at the end of the day corresponded to 100 messages.
Imagine that there is a kind of Marina, the mother of two children, student and pupil kindergarten. For two children Marina 4 groups vaybere: one with a teacher from the kindergarten, second only to the parent, no educator (To discuss the gifts, various organizational issues without the knowledge of the teacher), and the same 2 groups at schoolboy and teacher without. With so many groups and correspondences, we can just go crazy.
Ideally, if the communication is carried out in groups per se, but often it is not so. Many parents perceive these chat rooms as a "colloquial" and write about and no. Alas, not all parents have so much free time to read, and to actively support the conversation in the correspondence, because many two or three children. It is for these parents vayber chats - this test.
Parent-viber chats / istockphoto.com
To make these groups the most productive and useful, every parent's need to comply with certain rules of communication:
- Write to the parent chat briefly and to the point, for example, "Ponomarenko today will not be taken ill" and not "have Alesha overnight temperature was, so today we will not (I will try to enroll a doctor, but Mr. know how It happens. "
- Write all your mesedzh in one message, as permanent pilikane very distracting and annoying.
- Do not spam, do not send any pictures, greetings to all sorts of festivals and stuff, do not forget what created this group. If you want to talk, write a personal message.
- Be correct and tolerant, do not forget that you are educated adults, not arrange dismantling and quarrels in parenting chat rooms. If the topic is too painful, it is best to gather and discuss in person, such as a parents' meeting.
- Before you write, think about what you write, because it may harm your baby.
- Do not send in selfie chats with your child, do not describe how to pass your days, it's anyone but you and your loved ones are not interesting, believe me.
- And, perhaps most importantly, respect each other, because you are an example for their children!
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