When a friend or loved one asks you to borrow money, you are in a minefield. Well, if the debtor is a decent man and returns the money in time. And if not?
It is an art - the right to lend money because you need not stay in the cold and with a man not to spoil relations.
Sometimes borrowed money become a real bone of contention between friends, family, and friends. A proverb says: "Let's borrow money as long as you are not afraid of losing." So, how to lend money, not to quarrel?
Debt - this as a gift
Borrow a sum of money with which you can leave once and for all. And if you return them, consider that this is a present for you from both sides.
Money in the debt: how to borrow and not to quarrel / istockphoto.com
Forget the large sums
Do not borrow large sums. If you borrow a small sum of money, and it is a pity not to be about her loss. If the person does not return to you, even a trifle, then hope for it better not.
Stop all grievances
Well, it is not to lend money to a friend or loved one? It's a shame after all. And does not want to offend him. Remember that resentment - is silly. Man is not ashamed to break your limits his request?
Money in the debt: how to borrow and not to quarrel / istockphoto.com
learn to give
If you ask for in a large amount of debt. you have every right to refuse. Do you want to give all the money and count pennies?
Just know that lend money and refuse this request absolutely normal. As they ask.
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