Women can be feminine in different ways. Someone is simply beautiful in appearance, but it is simply impossible to live with such a beauty under the same roof - she is a despot and hysterical. Or vice versa, a woman may have almost feline habits, but is not far off in her mind, speaks foul language or does not look after her appearance.
If we talk about integral femininity, then it consists of 4 levels: physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Let's understand the topic.
Physical layer
This is just the appearance of a woman, her clothes, style, accessories. A feminine woman will not look vulgar and reveal all her charms, she will save her energy. Appearance: this is clean skin, makeup, hair. And the physical level of femininity also includes health, especially in the female part, a well-groomed figure, a waist!
In addition, movements, habits, voice - all this should also be feminine. And it is also the kind of atmosphere we create around ourselves: food prepared with love, interior, order and comfort in the house.
Emotional level
It's more about relationships with other people. It is important to be able to listen and hear them, to understand that others have their own goals, dreams, desires, opinions. It is necessary to be able to enjoy relationships and give this pleasure to others, to forgive insults, to be able to “serve” people, to accept loved ones with their shortcomings, to support them. It is important not to allow criticism, gossip, hatred, not to complain, not to become discouraged, not to fill your head with negativity.
Intellectual level
There is an opinion that a woman should be stupid, so she will have fewer problems and so she is more attractive to others. I consider this complete nonsense. True femininity is smart and wise. A feminine woman knows what, when and to whom to speak, and when to be silent at all, she has good manners, she does not vulgar, obeys her husband, speaks in such a way that it is pleasant to listen to her, she has a good vocabulary, devoid of swear words words. A feminine woman does not argue, does not play smart, does not try to prove something to someone, she develops, striving to become better.
Spiritual Level
This is a connection with the Universe, the realization that we are only small particles of something huge and immense, this gratitude to the Higher powers for everything that is, and not the understanding that happiness is the result of one’s own activities. A feminine woman goes to church, prays, talks with the Higher powers. And she helps those in need, gives her love, care and attention to others.
Yes, unfortunately, and for me, this list is a lot of work. It is important to understand that you need to be feminine not for someone, but for yourself, in everything, with every cell of yours. Otherwise, it's all fake. There is no femininity if a woman swears, does not look after her appearance, humiliates her husband, goes to terminate a pregnancy, dresses vulgarly, drinks alcohol to the point of disgusting. True femininity will never be in doubt! You either have it or you don't, no exceptions.
Femininity is visible in a woman, even if she burst into tears or if she is in a bad mood, if she makes a mistake or is not dressed in a dress. Everyone feels a feminine woman, some unknown beauty emanates from her, inner, soothing, tender. Femininity, developed in four levels, allows a woman to become harmonious, mature and holistic. You definitely can't argue with that.
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