There can be many reasons for betrayal, but in fact all these are just lustful desires of a person. You can think of just about anything. But the following question is of interest: why do cheaters end up not leaving marriage and continue to live with their wives? And they have many reasons for that!
They feel guilty
Sometimes a man, in order for him to become a faithful and caring husband, just needs to go left once for something to click in his head. Namely, there is a feeling of guilt, which is pretty exhausting. Perhaps the cheating man does not want to expose his family to a blow, he is afraid that because of his act everything will lead to a divorce, that this will negatively affect his wife, and even his children. I do not want to brand myself with the status of a traitor for the rest of my life, or maybe he is just very ashamed to get a divorce. Well, roared once, and that's enough.
They don't want to be single again
No, of course, cheaters after a divorce will be able to find a bunch of willing ladies. That's just to stay alone in terms of life, not everyone will agree. It’s also necessary to clean the house, and take care of yourself, and cook food. It's better to stay married.
They find it difficult to leave their comfort zone.
Just the thought that this relationship, called marriage, will suddenly end, and then you have to start all over again, drive the cheater crazy. He is used to living the way he lives, why change everything?
They are sure that the betrayal was one-time and will never happen again.
In general, it is quite convenient to think so. Although, it seems to me that treason is also an addiction. Tried it once and can't stop. Especially when the other half found out about everything and forgave, it can be argued that this will not happen again, keeping in mind the thought that if one more time, then forgive again. Yes, it happens that betrayal occurred after a quarrel, out of spite, some admit that this is generally an accident. And then the man suddenly realizes that for the sake of someone he is not ready to leave his family. Or maybe an affair on the side just didn’t appeal to you.
They don't want the hassle of divorce
Especially when there are children in the marriage, jointly acquired property, and maybe a business. Divorce is always not only difficult morally, but it can also hit hard financially. But you can just pretend to be a happy family man, and pretend that nothing happened.
For them, cheating is just adrenaline.
Some men are madly in love with walking on a knife edge, constantly being in suspense, fearing that they might suddenly be caught cheating. Yes, someone needs a parachute jump, and someone is ready even for this.
The children are holding
In general, for a long time everyone has known and understood that staying married only for the sake of children is very stupid and wrong. Yes, divorce also negatively affects children, but it’s better to have a divorce than to see how parents sort things out every day and feel that they don’t love each other.
They get away with everything
There are such "lucky ones" who manage to carefully hide their betrayal. Well, they don't come across, and that's it. Such people have one pleasure around: at home, a wife, children and comfort, on the side of entertainment with a mistress. Why change something?
They just don't have alternatives.
Maybe the betrayal happened with a married lady who is not going to build a relationship with him, or maybe with a night priestess. It turns out that there is no point in getting a divorce, why all these troubles and problems?
They don't have to choose
The mistress does not require anything from such, and the wife either does not know anything, or knows, but endures and wets. A lucky coincidence, you can take everything from each only the best!
They truly love their wives
Perhaps the man realized his mistake, and realized how much he loves his wife. This is probably the only option when the cheater remains in a marriage really for love. Although, if there has already been a betrayal, is it possible to talk about some kind of love?
I believe that treason cannot be forgiven. But many women still forgive their husbands, and call it wisdom. Do you think this is wisdom or stupidity?
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